"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl got butthurt after finding out I talked to other girls.

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So I hung out with this girl tonight, stayed at her house and watched some movies. She brought her stupid friend, but the third wheel was quickly resolved when I called over my wingman. Anyway, we ended up having a decent time and I got the k-close. I would of tried to go further but her parents were home.

Anyway, almost immediately after I leave her house she asks me if I'm dating this other girl K that I'm talking to. I tell her no, but we're talking. (The honest truth.) Then right after that she starts getting short with me. (Mind you, this was over text, but I still know how she acts.. and she wasn't acting normal.) So I called her on it. I ask her if she's mad. Typical girl answer. No. I'm asking her repeatedly, are you sure? Ya.. ya.. ya. Then I ask, ok well why are you being short with me? I'm not. Okay.. so by this point I just stop texting the b!tch because I don't have time for stupid sh!t like this.

I honestly don't think I did anything wrong. I'm not dating anyone, I can talk to as many girls as I want, but this girl took it differently. So do you guys think I acted right? I remained unphased by it. I just kept asking her why she was being weird, and she wouldn't tell me why so I pretty much stopped texting her. So idk. Should I just write her again tomorrow and act like this never happened. Or just let her calm down and wait for her to contact me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alphamale1821

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your a single man and you told the biitch your talking to another giirl. Not her problem that she gets pissed about it. You guys aren't official so it doesn't matter. LEt the chick be pissed fuuck it, not your problem. Simple as that.
 
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you did nothing wrong. You are a single man and can talk to whoever you want. If she cant deal with it oh well. Dont bring it up unless she says something about it.
 
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"I just stop texting the b!tch because I don't have time for stupid sh!t like this."

IF you dont have time for this stupid sh1t then why worry or for that matter be thinking about sending her a message back?
 
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