"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl got a Bf in another state... Should I?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SandHawk

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Do whatever you want, don't wait for us to tell you what to do. What are you? A mindless drone who waits for other people to make a decision or a man who takes charge and grabs what he wants? What do you want? Do you wanna bang her brains out? Then go for it.
 

Captain

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I'll just add this; if you aren't fvcking her, some other guy will. Long distance relationships DO NOT WORK and any 'man' in one is a chump, whom the girl will eventually cheat on (and if she isn't she will be receptive to it, given the right circumstances.)
 

nismo-4

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Make a goddamn move before I do. Take charge and go for whatever the f**k you want. If you make a girl who's taken have feelings for you, you can still get with her. If she ain't got a ring on, she's fair game. So go for it!

Rejection is better than regret. Read my sig.

Case closed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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