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Girl goes on a blog tirade after being dissed/rejected for her looks

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http://dove.msn.ca/en/?source=msnhp..._Response_Nadine.aspx[cp-documentid=22713376]

So the gist of the story is bascially that she went out with a guy she met online and during the date he asked her where does she gets her confidence since she is chubby girl with braces that doesn't have t1ts.

My money is on the guy being pissed that her profile picture only showed her face without showing her braces or her entire body and thus he felt like she decieved him.

Then she goes on a tirade about how much she is confident because she is a real woman and try to shame guys who chase after "fake model types" who according to her don't really exist but only in magazines.

This woman will be buying a cat in the future, you can book it.
 

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DJDamage said:
because she is a real woman.

a real woman's only job is to attract a man. :rolleyes:

granted, that was kinda a d1ck thing to say. lol. "why are you so confident when you're so mediocre looking?"

notice how he backpedaled and kinda said "uh. i mean, you've got a gorgeous face..." he smelled his chances evaporating.
 

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As a fellow ugly person I love ANYONE, male or female, who says "**** me? No, **** you!" to anyone who thinks they are too good for you because of your looks. And I've done fairly well in the Game of **** because of it. Hopefully she can too.

Besides, she's kinda cute from the picture on that link.
 

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She met him on an online dating site....probably omitted the fact that she blew off countless other men that messaged her because they werent "her type" (in her words....Prince Charming).

Now she's pissed Prince Charming doesnt think she's some Goddess and now has to loudly proclaim to the world she is a REAL WOMAN.

Meanwhile most men encounter cold/nasty rejections from women frequently and still manage to hold their head up in silent dignity as they try to make something of themselves in this world.
 

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I wouldn't date a girl I thought was ugly or fat, and not just for the obvious reasons.

Typically a girl who is ugly or fat (or both) has been treated like crap for years and this treatment has damaged her self-esteem / her character. I've dealt with enough women with screwed up insides, no thanks I don't need that drama anymore.
 

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FutureSpartan said:
She met him on an online dating site....probably omitted the fact that she blew off countless other men that messaged her because they werent "her type" (in her words....Prince Charming).

Now she's pissed Prince Charming doesnt think she's some Goddess and now has to loudly proclaim to the world she is a REAL WOMAN.

Meanwhile most men encounter cold/nasty rejections from women frequently and still manage to hold their head up in silent dignity as they try to makmee something of themselves in this world.
Exactly,women probably this one included, reject men over the guys' looks online and elsewhere by the boatload. If the guy were to complain women would just call him a "loser" or something similar.
 

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a real woman's only job is to attract a man. :rolleyes:
Truer words never spoken. My current GF hooked me and it went a long way to my letting my other girls go, when she said "it's my place to satisfy you" .... damn she's a catch.

Women are the only prey that tries to actively attract the predator.
 

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As a man, if I were single and I met a woman online and was not happy with what I saw in the first date, I'd be polite, I'd still treat her to the time of her life that night, but i'd move on after that night. No one is saying he should date her, but he didnt' have to be an ******* about it.


I told this story before, but about what.. a year ago I was in a grocery store.. just doing some grocery shopping. nothing out of the ordinary. so I get in line and there is this bigger black woman.. about 250, and she is letting everyone overhear her rant about how she is a "real woman"... i couldn't help but easdropping but she hinted at her BF sleeping with another (skinner better looking) woman. she had her BWA with her (*****es with attitudes...every last one of them 200 pounds, so 3 in all).

So, I'm in line, trying to pretend lke I'm not hearing every word that is going on. I pick up a maginze and I'm just trying to check out.

So the woman just looks at me and says "ain't that right". I'm like.. aint' what right?".

so the woman says "real men like a woman with some meat on her bones"...

So I try to talk my way out of it as politicy as possible, and I say "well.. everyone has different tastes (which is true), to each their own"

that wasn't good enough.

She says "you would date me woudln't you, you think i'm sexy".

guys.. this woman llooked like a fat black miss piggy.


so again... I'm like "well I have a Girlfriend" (which was true)

So she says "what if you didn't have a girlfriend"

So I say "but I do, so what does it matter"

so she says "what you dont' think i'm attractive"

So I finally say "honstly you really aren't my type"

by now the cashier is crying laughing.

So now that the cat is out of the bag, I figure I will try to make my point. I tell her look... you are ovbiously attracted to me becuase you found a random guy and asked him would he hook up with him. you saw me and said I'm going to ask this guy, would he want to date me, becuase I think he qualifies as a good looking guy". Well, I work out 6 days a week, I go out of my way to take care of myself. This is what you noticed about me. So, why is it fair for you to want to date guys who are in shape and take care of themselves, and you ovbiously don't take care of yourself. Look at the food in your cart and look at mine. Why shoudl I settle for anyone who doesnt' live the same way I do and take care of themselves the way I do?"

by now she's hot. so she's saying 'you motherfcker, you couldn't handle this pfvssy anyway, i'd eat you alive, you wouldnt' know a real woman.. i bet yiou are dating a skinny white ***** (my GF is..skinny and white... the ***** is optional)... then proceeds to follow m all the way to my car to continue to give me an earfull.

by now Im seriously considering throwing her throw a window. seriously. She even pushed me. by now I'm just smiling and trying to get out of there before I do somethin I will regret. 250 or not I'd beat the breaks off that woman and hurt her and end up in jail.

very no win situtation.

I tell people, all I do is hold people to the same standards I hold myself to. Yes I like skinny athletic women. Guess what, I'm skinny and athletic. it's not like i'm 250 sitting at home watching internet porn and bookmarking hot women and demanding them.

anyway, thought it was funny and i'm bored for the next 30 mintues so figured i'd post the story
 

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Funny story Backbreaker. I can't believe you told her straight up like that lol. I bet no one has done that before. I don't know what it is, but black women are often hostile and aggressive, and if you acknowledge them at all it's like feeding a troll and they will just escalate the drama.
 

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I didn't have a fvcking choice. she was hitting on me and if I would have told her yes she wuold have (want to throw up) ask me out and ****. then I have to explain to my gF why this fat black woman is calling my cell phone.;

I mean I'm black, I have nothing against black women, black women can be uirw sexy. but nothing is more hidious than an overweight african american woman.
 

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I didn't have a fvcking choice. she was hitting on me and if I would have told her yes she wuold have (want to throw up) ask me out and ****. then I have to explain to my gF why this fat black woman is calling my cell phone.

I mean I'm black, I have nothing against black women, black women can be quite sexy. but nothing is more hidious than an overweight african american woman.
 
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well handled bro, props on you for not punching her lights out despite her pushing all your buttons. i must say its not restricted to fat black women though, im white and plenty of fat white women have attitudes too like they are hot ****. women really are out of control these days, thanks feminism!
 

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I dont think there is anything wrong with chubby women being confident, it is the same with an unattractice guy being confident. It depends where it comes from. In the article it seems as if she gets her confidence internally which is cool, on the other hand in backbreaker's story, the chick clearly needs external validation which she didn't get from him.

With that said, we all get that the models we see advertised are often caked with makeout and photo airbrushing et al but even when you take this all away, they are still more fvckable than a chubby chick with no tits and braces.

It is just Dove trying to sell their product to a wider fanbase than normal. Smart but morally questionable advertising. Telling women they are beautiful just the way they are and using that to sell products to make women feel more attractive.
 

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I also don't have a problem with confident woman (who i myself feel are un-attractive), but it's when they get angry or look down on others when they dont feel the same way they do about themselves that's the problem.

a negative of the spring and summer is seeing fat woman wearing tight clothing..it's like looking at a popped open can of biscuits.

You have woman who are being told that men SHOULD be attracted to them...no matter what they look like. and if men are'nt something is wrong with em.

She's just another fat chick who's throwin a fit because someone does'nt find her attractive.
 
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It's always one extreme or the other.

No, i don't expect anyone to look like airbrushed models. Just because i don't like you because you're fat or flat chested doesn't mean i require unrealistic airbrushed women.

What a freakin fallacy.


Washboard abs? I mostly have my abs showing and i'm almost 30. It's not that hard. The hard part is keeping them out there while getting more muscular at the same time. The only thing women have to do is keep skinny and that's the easy part!! I've never dated a woman that really had abs. Flat stomachs or a little gut, sure, but washboard abs? not really.

Btw, i'm pretty sure that picture of her on that blog site is touched up. So are the faces in the ads. Oh,and she wears makeup and her hair color looks fake.
 
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