As a man, if I were single and I met a woman online and was not happy with what I saw in the first date, I'd be polite, I'd still treat her to the time of her life that night, but i'd move on after that night. No one is saying he should date her, but he didnt' have to be an ******* about it.
I told this story before, but about what.. a year ago I was in a grocery store.. just doing some grocery shopping. nothing out of the ordinary. so I get in line and there is this bigger black woman.. about 250, and she is letting everyone overhear her rant about how she is a "real woman"... i couldn't help but easdropping but she hinted at her BF sleeping with another (skinner better looking) woman. she had her BWA with her (*****es with attitudes...every last one of them 200 pounds, so 3 in all).
So, I'm in line, trying to pretend lke I'm not hearing every word that is going on. I pick up a maginze and I'm just trying to check out.
So the woman just looks at me and says "ain't that right". I'm like.. aint' what right?".
so the woman says "real men like a woman with some meat on her bones"...
So I try to talk my way out of it as politicy as possible, and I say "well.. everyone has different tastes (which is true), to each their own"
that wasn't good enough.
She says "you would date me woudln't you, you think i'm sexy".
guys.. this woman llooked like a fat black miss piggy.
so again... I'm like "well I have a Girlfriend" (which was true)
So she says "what if you didn't have a girlfriend"
So I say "but I do, so what does it matter"
so she says "what you dont' think i'm attractive"
So I finally say "honstly you really aren't my type"
by now the cashier is crying laughing.
So now that the cat is out of the bag, I figure I will try to make my point. I tell her look... you are ovbiously attracted to me becuase you found a random guy and asked him would he hook up with him. you saw me and said I'm going to ask this guy, would he want to date me, becuase I think he qualifies as a good looking guy". Well, I work out 6 days a week, I go out of my way to take care of myself. This is what you noticed about me. So, why is it fair for you to want to date guys who are in shape and take care of themselves, and you ovbiously don't take care of yourself. Look at the food in your cart and look at mine. Why shoudl I settle for anyone who doesnt' live the same way I do and take care of themselves the way I do?"
by now she's hot. so she's saying 'you motherfcker, you couldn't handle this pfvssy anyway, i'd eat you alive, you wouldnt' know a real woman.. i bet yiou are dating a skinny white ***** (my GF is..skinny and white... the ***** is optional)... then proceeds to follow m all the way to my car to continue to give me an earfull.
by now Im seriously considering throwing her throw a window. seriously. She even pushed me. by now I'm just smiling and trying to get out of there before I do somethin I will regret. 250 or not I'd beat the breaks off that woman and hurt her and end up in jail.
very no win situtation.
I tell people, all I do is hold people to the same standards I hold myself to. Yes I like skinny athletic women. Guess what, I'm skinny and athletic. it's not like i'm 250 sitting at home watching internet porn and bookmarking hot women and demanding them.
anyway, thought it was funny and i'm bored for the next 30 mintues so figured i'd post the story