"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl giving me the run around?

Moneytalks

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A friend of mine who I'd like to fuck as she's pretty hot is confusing the hell out of me

She was giving mixed signals, sleeping in my bed but not responding to my flirts or kino.

Coming round to play the wii, but leaving when she could.

Tonight at the pub she was sitting really close to me 'i can't believe you don't have a gf', 'I'm never having sex again' and other comments, and then moving away from me or telling me she fancies other guys.

I know for a fact that she messes with guys minds, she's asked me to help her do it.


Fcuking confusing ****,
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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slaog

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She sounds like she has mental problems. She might like the power it gives her or something.


Yeah it's likely she's doing the same to you. She knows you like her but I don't think shes that interested in you. It's no loss. She probably has lots of AFC's chasing her so plenty of options.


Why don't you just forget about her and go find other women. even if she liked you, do you think she'd stop playing her games if you were in a relationship with her?
 

Craig Reeves

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You need to make a move. You need to test her interest by asking her to come over to your house to watch a movie or something. You need to start to also get physically involved (i.e. hand holding, kissing, etc.). Cut through the games because right now you're allowing her to play with your head by not forcing her to come to a decision on what she's going to do with you. Hope that helps.

Best,
Craig
 

Moneytalks

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Fcuk her, she's had mental health issues in the past.

Test her by asking her to come round? She asks every day if she can come round- I say no most of the time because I'm just too tired from work.

All I wanted was a shag. I'm going after a new girl that's started at work now :rockon:
 
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