"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Moneytalks

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A friend of mine who I'd like to fuck as she's pretty hot is confusing the hell out of me

She was giving mixed signals, sleeping in my bed but not responding to my flirts or kino.

Coming round to play the wii, but leaving when she could.

Tonight at the pub she was sitting really close to me 'i can't believe you don't have a gf', 'I'm never having sex again' and other comments, and then moving away from me or telling me she fancies other guys.

I know for a fact that she messes with guys minds, she's asked me to help her do it.


Fcuking confusing ****,
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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She sounds like she has mental problems. She might like the power it gives her or something.


Yeah it's likely she's doing the same to you. She knows you like her but I don't think shes that interested in you. It's no loss. She probably has lots of AFC's chasing her so plenty of options.


Why don't you just forget about her and go find other women. even if she liked you, do you think she'd stop playing her games if you were in a relationship with her?
 
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You need to make a move. You need to test her interest by asking her to come over to your house to watch a movie or something. You need to start to also get physically involved (i.e. hand holding, kissing, etc.). Cut through the games because right now you're allowing her to play with your head by not forcing her to come to a decision on what she's going to do with you. Hope that helps.

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Craig
 
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Fcuk her, she's had mental health issues in the past.

Test her by asking her to come round? She asks every day if she can come round- I say no most of the time because I'm just too tired from work.

All I wanted was a shag. I'm going after a new girl that's started at work now :rockon:
 
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