"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pyros

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Hi.


I was wondering. Let's say you meet a girl and you ask her for her cell phone number but she says that she preferes to give you her Facebook instead.

Would you just take her fb?


I was thinking about replying something like:
hey, listen, you give me your number, we go have some fun, and if nothing else, we'll be friends and you can add me as a friend in FB then.



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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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moneyisking

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if you met a girl and she suggests to fb friend you instead of giving number, i think 10 times out of 10, that means "i am not interested". think about it. if she thought of you as someone who was datable, you think she would refrain from giving number when asked? i don't think so. and the line you provided in the end, to me personally, i think it's better to not say something like that. just sounds cheesy and won't impress nobody. I've done it before, and that's why i think it's best not to do that.
 

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moneyisking said:
if you met a girl and she suggests to fb friend you instead of giving number, i think 10 times out of 10, that means "i am not interested".
Agreed.

You can think up all the cool responses you want. If the girl's not giving up her phone number, better to invest your energy on someone else.

If you gotta fight that hard to get the phone number, imagine how hard you'll have to fight to get a date.
 

In2theGame

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i agree with the other guys, shes just not that into you. a Girl who's interested will give you her direct access (phone number).
 

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Judge nismo knows that she's just not that into you.

If she was interested, she'd make it known. Here, she just wants you on Facebook to get an ego boost. An uphill battle which I don't have time and energy to fight.

Please keep that lame ass desperate reply to yourself. :nono:

Cutting her loose is the best thing that is for you.

Case closed. +1 rep to the above posters.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gangster Of Love

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Agreed with fellows above.

1) If she was into you, she would agree to all your requests.

2) A broad who wants to FB add you is doing it to pile up on the numbers, for validation.

She can just keep you there forever, ignore you, and think nothing of it.The more she is interested, the easier she will make it for you.
 
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