"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl gives fb but not cell phone

pyros

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Hi.


I was wondering. Let's say you meet a girl and you ask her for her cell phone number but she says that she preferes to give you her Facebook instead.

Would you just take her fb?


I was thinking about replying something like:
hey, listen, you give me your number, we go have some fun, and if nothing else, we'll be friends and you can add me as a friend in FB then.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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moneyisking

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if you met a girl and she suggests to fb friend you instead of giving number, i think 10 times out of 10, that means "i am not interested". think about it. if she thought of you as someone who was datable, you think she would refrain from giving number when asked? i don't think so. and the line you provided in the end, to me personally, i think it's better to not say something like that. just sounds cheesy and won't impress nobody. I've done it before, and that's why i think it's best not to do that.
 

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moneyisking said:
if you met a girl and she suggests to fb friend you instead of giving number, i think 10 times out of 10, that means "i am not interested".
Agreed.

You can think up all the cool responses you want. If the girl's not giving up her phone number, better to invest your energy on someone else.

If you gotta fight that hard to get the phone number, imagine how hard you'll have to fight to get a date.
 

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i agree with the other guys, shes just not that into you. a Girl who's interested will give you her direct access (phone number).
 

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Judge nismo knows that she's just not that into you.

If she was interested, she'd make it known. Here, she just wants you on Facebook to get an ego boost. An uphill battle which I don't have time and energy to fight.

Please keep that lame ass desperate reply to yourself. :nono:

Cutting her loose is the best thing that is for you.

Case closed. +1 rep to the above posters.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agreed with fellows above.

1) If she was into you, she would agree to all your requests.

2) A broad who wants to FB add you is doing it to pile up on the numbers, for validation.

She can just keep you there forever, ignore you, and think nothing of it.The more she is interested, the easier she will make it for you.
 
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