"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl gave me number twice, but loves another?

Zerom

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Hi!

This girl is one of my sisters far friends.
The last two times I've been at a party with her, shes given me her number.
The first time I didn't save it, but the second time we exchange numbers.

Shes a very good looking girl, but the thing is I've hardly spoken to her. The first time she gave me her number we've only exchanged a few sentences with each other. The second time we had a small chatt and she wanted me to give her massage.

Sounds good so far? Well, then I ask my sister about her, who tells me the girl is in love and has been for a quit while, in love with another guy who doesn't love her!
So what should I do, should I go for her anyway? I'm mostly looking for a serious commitment.
I usually have a pretty hard time getting girls, and since this one is so good looking, I just can't next her yet.
And should I call her or should I wait for her to call since she's the one who actually seemed most interested of the two of us.

By the way, I'm 25 and the's 22.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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People need to learn that a link exists for questions like these....like the bible? Yeah, that's it.

Call her, set up a date, go to date, attract, onwards.
Not that hard.
 
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