"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

girl gave me a shyt test

callowhill

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 11, 2006
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
west philly
ive been talking to her for abut a week and she flaked on me once so i didnt call her for four days .i called her last night and everything was going good
tan she pulls a shyt test on me.she told me that her room was dark and she wished that i was there the afc me would have probably fell for this but since i am a don juan i caught on to whatshe was doing.do you guys remember the boyfreind destroyer.im not talking about the one where you tell the girl to imagine her boyfreind three inches tall and to smash him with her fist.im talking about the one where you make her boyfreind look to much like a nice guy for her by saying hes the perfect guy and they belong togethr forever.so any in it theres a part that you tell the girl something that makes her visualize you and her together.thats what this girl basically did so i told her i
hate when girl try to make me imagine things. so she said you are starting to eurk me.thats when i told her that since i eurk her than maybe i should hang up when i said that she just clicked on me what should i do?:nono:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Dogfish

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2006
Messages
72
Reaction score
1
uh-huh... i don't think you responded well. c&f ("you just want to get in my pants, don't ya? every girl wants that, but i...etc") would have been better.
 

Anomalous

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
764
Reaction score
5
MOVE this thread to Discussion forum. IRK- to annoy

You should have done the boyfriend destroyer since you thought she was playing you... "Why don't you ask your BF to come over, I can just see it know, you two living in a nice trailer park....."

Personaly I didn't see it as her trying to play you. You could have gotten laid.
 
Last edited:

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
I think you blew it.

She was more or less inviting you over, hitting on you, trying to judge your response.

An AFC wouldve said "Oh I wish I was over there too"

I would've said "It sure seems like you're trying to seduce me over the phone. How lazy."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top