"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl gave me a shyt test

callowhill

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ive been talking to her for abut a week and she flaked on me once so i didnt call her for four days .i called her last night and everything was going good
tan she pulls a shyt test on me.she told me that her room was dark and she wished that i was there the afc me would have probably fell for this but since i am a don juan i caught on to whatshe was doing.do you guys remember the boyfreind destroyer.im not talking about the one where you tell the girl to imagine her boyfreind three inches tall and to smash him with her fist.im talking about the one where you make her boyfreind look to much like a nice guy for her by saying hes the perfect guy and they belong togethr forever.so any in it theres a part that you tell the girl something that makes her visualize you and her together.thats what this girl basically did so i told her i
hate when girl try to make me imagine things. so she said you are starting to eurk me.thats when i told her that since i eurk her than maybe i should hang up when i said that she just clicked on me what should i do?:nono:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dogfish

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uh-huh... i don't think you responded well. c&f ("you just want to get in my pants, don't ya? every girl wants that, but i...etc") would have been better.
 

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MOVE this thread to Discussion forum. IRK- to annoy

You should have done the boyfriend destroyer since you thought she was playing you... "Why don't you ask your BF to come over, I can just see it know, you two living in a nice trailer park....."

Personaly I didn't see it as her trying to play you. You could have gotten laid.
 
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I think you blew it.

She was more or less inviting you over, hitting on you, trying to judge your response.

An AFC wouldve said "Oh I wish I was over there too"

I would've said "It sure seems like you're trying to seduce me over the phone. How lazy."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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