Well there is this girl at work. I know I have asked this before. However I decided not to pursue females at work. However the situation has changed. This one girl got fired. So I was thinking of calling her up. However I haven't got her permission. Any ideas? She touches me a lot when at work. So I know she likes me. I never asked for her phone. So any way I could call her up without sending the wrong message. Normally you would ask for the phone number, but she is gone.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl from work:
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- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Pursuing girls at work is fine. Especially if it's just a temporary job for ****s and giggles. The only thing to keep in the back of your mind, is that keeping things fresh with this girl is going to be tough. Most of my run ins with girls at work have been one night stands, or booty calls at most.
My question is, why try to pursue a girl that is so out of your way? A girl touches you the right way and you run right for her, even after she quit her job? Come on bro, you're aspiring to be a DJ right? Theres plenty of fish in the water and running after one just because she rubbed you the right way is a hassle, and desperate. She will sense when you call her that you suddenly just gathered the balls to call her for some reason. I mean do what you want, but if I were you it'd just be easier to pursue the other girls you work with (if they're cute of course
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My question is, why try to pursue a girl that is so out of your way? A girl touches you the right way and you run right for her, even after she quit her job? Come on bro, you're aspiring to be a DJ right? Theres plenty of fish in the water and running after one just because she rubbed you the right way is a hassle, and desperate. She will sense when you call her that you suddenly just gathered the balls to call her for some reason. I mean do what you want, but if I were you it'd just be easier to pursue the other girls you work with (if they're cute of course
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