Well there is this girl at work. I know I have asked this before. However I decided not to pursue females at work. However the situation has changed. This one girl got fired. So I was thinking of calling her up. However I haven't got her permission. Any ideas? She touches me a lot when at work. So I know she likes me. I never asked for her phone. So any way I could call her up without sending the wrong message. Normally you would ask for the phone number, but she is gone.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girl from work:
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- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Pursuing girls at work is fine. Especially if it's just a temporary job for ****s and giggles. The only thing to keep in the back of your mind, is that keeping things fresh with this girl is going to be tough. Most of my run ins with girls at work have been one night stands, or booty calls at most.
My question is, why try to pursue a girl that is so out of your way? A girl touches you the right way and you run right for her, even after she quit her job? Come on bro, you're aspiring to be a DJ right? Theres plenty of fish in the water and running after one just because she rubbed you the right way is a hassle, and desperate. She will sense when you call her that you suddenly just gathered the balls to call her for some reason. I mean do what you want, but if I were you it'd just be easier to pursue the other girls you work with (if they're cute of course
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My question is, why try to pursue a girl that is so out of your way? A girl touches you the right way and you run right for her, even after she quit her job? Come on bro, you're aspiring to be a DJ right? Theres plenty of fish in the water and running after one just because she rubbed you the right way is a hassle, and desperate. She will sense when you call her that you suddenly just gathered the balls to call her for some reason. I mean do what you want, but if I were you it'd just be easier to pursue the other girls you work with (if they're cute of course
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