"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is this girl I like, and I pretty sure she likes me. Most days she usually touches me multiple times. One day, she said, referred to the fact I am the only guy that works there. She smiled and said why you don’t take advantage of it.
So I am guessing that was a sign that she likes me. So I was like okay I took the hint, and tried to get her number. I got it yet, didn't get anything arraigned.

Later she said, I don’t think I want a relationship. She said that the last one she had at work, was with another guy and went it ended it caused problems at work. But beforehand she was touching me, and afterwards she even(I think shoved her breasts at me). So I am guessing this is b.s.

So I was thinking of calling her in a couple of days. Maybe kiss her at work.

What do you think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldn't kiss her or make a move on her at work. Get together with her outside of work and go with the flow from there.
 

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I would never again become involved in any way with a girl whom I had to work with or whom I had to always see on a regular basis, I only ever sarge girls in an evironment where I never have to go or see them again, it just creates problems, I wouldn't get involved. :cool:
 

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Why not kiss her at work?

Is it weird? I've seen it done before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am guessing you were meaning to warm her up before the kiss (I don't think she'd appreciate you just going up and kissing her), plus look at it from your colleague's point of view. Unless you are definitely a couple and they know it, they may see it as harassment (especially if she pulls away).

Keep the romance/intimacy for outside of work or lunch breaks. The people you see kissing have probably been together for quite a while.
 

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I don't think so

She makes the moves on me, so don't you think it would me natural to kiss her? Of course I would wait till she makes the move on me.
 

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Old saying goes, don't judge a woman on her words, judge her on her actions.
 

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Thanks for your help

I usually judge by actions more than words.
 

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Dude she's probably a ho, ho's always say stuff like "I don't want a relationship", which is true because she probably only wants sex, especially if she's young.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So do you suggest

Should I invite her to social events? I could then, make the moves there.
 

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She doesn't want a date. She just wants to bang you. Call her up, ask her if she wants to go for a ride. Take her to a secluded location and bang her. With this type of girl, it turns her on to know that you're picking her up for the sole purpose of driving her somewhere to bang her without AFC frills.

Treat a ho like a ho. That's what gets them off. This is how you treat a ho. Treat her decently, but without hiding your intention to bang her good.

Don't be afraid to be sloppy with a girl like this. She prefers it that way. Keep it out of work though.
 

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So you are saying..

Just call her and ask to go for a ride. Where should I fvck?
 

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^^^ Wherever she lets you :crackup:
 

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KoalaKing said:
I would never again become involved in any way with a girl whom I had to work with or whom I had to always see on a regular basis, I only ever sarge girls in an evironment where I never have to go or see them again, it just creates problems, I wouldn't get involved. :cool:

+1 on the bro!! Even if the relationship is healthy and mature, its just set up to fail since there's no alone time.

crossboss: Don't kiss her @ work bro!! What are you 12?? LOL Just keep flirting with her and see what happens. Your goal should be to fuvk this chick, so work on getting her alone outside of work where you can lay the smack down.



PIMP
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just invite her over to watch a movie. Sex always happens if you have any game and she's loose. And it's basically free.
 

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Yep, fu&k her like everyone says, then wait for the fireworks. Dude, if you do that she's got you wrapped around her little pinkie. Upset her in the future, and she could turn around and claim you assaulted her. Imagine if you both go for the same job/promotion???
 

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Pimp-sicle said:
+1 on the bro!! Even if the relationship is healthy and mature, its just set up to fail since there's no alone time.

crossboss: Don't kiss her @ work bro!! What are you 12?? LOL Just keep flirting with her and see what happens. Your goal should be to fuvk this chick, so work on getting her alone outside of work where you can lay the smack down.



PIMP

Then I must be a genius. A twelve year old working at a job? Give me a break. But thanks for your advice.
 

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LongDrinkofWater said:
^^^ Wherever she lets you :crackup:

I don't know about that. You can't just fvck her anywhere. It has to make sense. Although I didn't say any examples either. How does car feel?
 

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Rondavu said:
She doesn't want a date. She just wants to bang you. Call her up, ask her if she wants to go for a ride. Take her to a secluded location and bang her. With this type of girl, it turns her on to know that you're picking her up for the sole purpose of driving her somewhere to bang her without AFC frills.

Treat a ho like a ho. That's what gets them off. This is how you treat a ho. Treat her decently, but without hiding your intention to bang her good.

Don't be afraid to be sloppy with a girl like this. She prefers it that way. Keep it out of work though.
The original poster needs to heed the words of this post, it's the best advice in this thread.

And to answer your question about how it feels in the car, well, it feels mighty damn good as long as you don't have an E-brake jutting between your ribs or a steering wheel lodged in your buttcrack. How big is your car? :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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