"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl from past rite next to me in class

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hey guys, i started skool today n its been so far so good. Now heres the part where im kinda stumped...in one of my classes i sit rite next to a girl i was tryin to get with last year. this attempt was probably one of the most afc attempts ever... i wont get into it. wut should i do since she sits rite next to me? talk to her anyway or rule out all girls from my past??? tips anyone
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh yea, and im not an afc anymore, quite popular and i mess wit girls alot, so it wud be weird to just sit in class without sayin much, but i dont think i shud talk much either cuz she'll prolly think im still interested in her (or end up liking me cuz hey, im a don juan student now:cool
 

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Originally posted by Knockout
oh yea, and im not an afc anymore, quite popular and i mess wit girls alot, so it wud be weird to just sit in class without sayin much, but i dont think i shud talk much either cuz she'll prolly think im still interested in her (or end up liking me cuz hey, im a don juan student now:cool
Now youre still an afc asking a question like that. Talk to her just for the entertainment.
 

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Play it cool, work your new game but always seem disintrested.
 

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crack on her dude, making fun of girls in a way that makes them laugh too is great! Use kino, kino == sex! uh, good luck?! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you still want to get with her: Either way just talk to her. If you are interested in getting with her use your new personality to get her interested, if not then just try some stuff anyway for a bit of experiance.
About her thinking shes interested in you: If you're not interested in her and she thinks you are who cares anyway? You've got to sit next to her so you might as well have some fun and practise on her. I talk alot to all average looking or better girls just for fun and experiance.
 

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wtf, talk to her anyway.

Ruling out all girls from ur past does not mean you dont speak to them even if you are a pvssy and frightened of girls
 
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