"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girl from past rite next to me in class

Knockout

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hey guys, i started skool today n its been so far so good. Now heres the part where im kinda stumped...in one of my classes i sit rite next to a girl i was tryin to get with last year. this attempt was probably one of the most afc attempts ever... i wont get into it. wut should i do since she sits rite next to me? talk to her anyway or rule out all girls from my past??? tips anyone
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oh yea, and im not an afc anymore, quite popular and i mess wit girls alot, so it wud be weird to just sit in class without sayin much, but i dont think i shud talk much either cuz she'll prolly think im still interested in her (or end up liking me cuz hey, im a don juan student now:cool
 

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Originally posted by Knockout
oh yea, and im not an afc anymore, quite popular and i mess wit girls alot, so it wud be weird to just sit in class without sayin much, but i dont think i shud talk much either cuz she'll prolly think im still interested in her (or end up liking me cuz hey, im a don juan student now:cool
Now youre still an afc asking a question like that. Talk to her just for the entertainment.
 

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Play it cool, work your new game but always seem disintrested.
 

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crack on her dude, making fun of girls in a way that makes them laugh too is great! Use kino, kino == sex! uh, good luck?! :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do you still want to get with her: Either way just talk to her. If you are interested in getting with her use your new personality to get her interested, if not then just try some stuff anyway for a bit of experiance.
About her thinking shes interested in you: If you're not interested in her and she thinks you are who cares anyway? You've got to sit next to her so you might as well have some fun and practise on her. I talk alot to all average looking or better girls just for fun and experiance.
 

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wtf, talk to her anyway.

Ruling out all girls from ur past does not mean you dont speak to them even if you are a pvssy and frightened of girls
 
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