"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl from high school

Desdinova

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Had an interesting night on Friday. Me and a friend (who is better at attracting women than me) hit up a bar I haven't been to in a while. I know a couple of the regulars there, which is always nice social proof. We did a fantastic job of levelling any competition that existed there. The great thing is we weren't even trying. We were just having fun, making spectacles of ourselves and generally being loud.

The hot bartender was fukkin eyeballing the both of us, and I ended up getting kissed by another woman who worked there. Weird how that happened:

Her: It would be great to be a man
Me: Then it would be wrong for us to find you attractive!
Her: <pause> Awwww! That was a compliment! <kiss>

The BEST part about the night was encountering a chick I went to high school with. Now, I was a fvcking loser in high school. I mean, I was bottom of the barrel. Wait, I was the dirt UNDER the bottom of the barrel. She was fukkin mean to me back in those days.

So what do you do when you see someone like this? Approach!

Me: Hey, is your name Janet?
Her: Yeah!
Me: Janet Smith?
Her: Yeah!
Me: I went to high school with you.
Her: Yeah, you went to <school name>?
Me: Yeah.

She couldn't remember me. I look way different than I did in those days. Told her my name, took my glasses off and pulled my hair back. She still had trouble remembering me.

Me: You weren't very nice to me in high school.
Her: What? Really?
Me: Yeah. You talked to me like I was a piece of ****
Her: Really? :(
Me: Well, I don't blame you, I was a loser back then.
Her: No you werent
Me: Yes I was! Don't try to tell me I wasn't!

She then excused herself and disappeared for a cigarette. Actually, it was probably four cigarettes because she was gone for a long time. From a seduction point of view, this is a GOOD thing. She's obviously thinking about me and is probably extremely upset at herself for treating me, a sexy dude like a piece of ****.

She eventually came back and we chatted some more. I showed her a really old picture of me that I had.

Her: It's too bad I treated you badly because you were pretty cute!
Me: Oh thanks! NOW you tell me! (sarcastic)

She apologized many times for treating me like garbage in high school. Anyway, I asked her if she was on facebook and I told her I'd add her. Now, it's only when you make a HUGE impression (such as this) on a woman do you pull the waiting game. I still haven't added her, but I'll be doing so tonight.

Anyway, when the end of the night came, she gave me a hug and said she'd see me on facebook. The joy of the emotional rollercoaster - yes I'm running intentional game on her. I want her to be attracted to me although I have no desire to date her since I'm already happily in a LTR. But having a victory after so many years of being a loser is a great feeling. This is the second time I've done this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Great job!! I always tell guys that come here asking for advice on what to do at parties/clubs/bars to just have fun and this is exactly what you did. Thanks for proving my point that if you just go out with the mentality of having fun, everything else that happens is a bonus. In this case the fact that you were kissed by one chick and eye fu&ked by another.

Personally, I would have gone for a phone number with the high school chick, but if you plan on gaming her, I think you will do well. Good luck with that one. Game her good, get her in bed, and make her pay for all those mean things she did sexually.
 

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Dude, I'm in a LTR. I'm not gaming her for sex. I'm gaming her for the sheer purpose of gaming her. If I was single, I would game her, the bartender, and the other chick who worked there for sex.
 

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"Wait, I was the dirt UNDER the bottom of the barrel. She was fukkin mean to me back in those days."

LOL, her millions of apologies must've been sweet to hear eh Des?
 

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LOL, her millions of apologies must've been sweet to hear eh Des?
Yeah, and I'm not done yet! The worst thing I could do to this chick is make her attracted to me. She knows I'm taken. Hell, the chick who kissed me knows I'm taken! To women, a relationship or even marriage is just mere competition when it comes to a truly desireable man. They don't care how wrong it is to flirt with a man who's taken, they just care about what they feel.... and they want more of it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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