"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl from high school

Desdinova

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Had an interesting night on Friday. Me and a friend (who is better at attracting women than me) hit up a bar I haven't been to in a while. I know a couple of the regulars there, which is always nice social proof. We did a fantastic job of levelling any competition that existed there. The great thing is we weren't even trying. We were just having fun, making spectacles of ourselves and generally being loud.

The hot bartender was fukkin eyeballing the both of us, and I ended up getting kissed by another woman who worked there. Weird how that happened:

Her: It would be great to be a man
Me: Then it would be wrong for us to find you attractive!
Her: <pause> Awwww! That was a compliment! <kiss>

The BEST part about the night was encountering a chick I went to high school with. Now, I was a fvcking loser in high school. I mean, I was bottom of the barrel. Wait, I was the dirt UNDER the bottom of the barrel. She was fukkin mean to me back in those days.

So what do you do when you see someone like this? Approach!

Me: Hey, is your name Janet?
Her: Yeah!
Me: Janet Smith?
Her: Yeah!
Me: I went to high school with you.
Her: Yeah, you went to <school name>?
Me: Yeah.

She couldn't remember me. I look way different than I did in those days. Told her my name, took my glasses off and pulled my hair back. She still had trouble remembering me.

Me: You weren't very nice to me in high school.
Her: What? Really?
Me: Yeah. You talked to me like I was a piece of ****
Her: Really? :(
Me: Well, I don't blame you, I was a loser back then.
Her: No you werent
Me: Yes I was! Don't try to tell me I wasn't!

She then excused herself and disappeared for a cigarette. Actually, it was probably four cigarettes because she was gone for a long time. From a seduction point of view, this is a GOOD thing. She's obviously thinking about me and is probably extremely upset at herself for treating me, a sexy dude like a piece of ****.

She eventually came back and we chatted some more. I showed her a really old picture of me that I had.

Her: It's too bad I treated you badly because you were pretty cute!
Me: Oh thanks! NOW you tell me! (sarcastic)

She apologized many times for treating me like garbage in high school. Anyway, I asked her if she was on facebook and I told her I'd add her. Now, it's only when you make a HUGE impression (such as this) on a woman do you pull the waiting game. I still haven't added her, but I'll be doing so tonight.

Anyway, when the end of the night came, she gave me a hug and said she'd see me on facebook. The joy of the emotional rollercoaster - yes I'm running intentional game on her. I want her to be attracted to me although I have no desire to date her since I'm already happily in a LTR. But having a victory after so many years of being a loser is a great feeling. This is the second time I've done this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Great job!! I always tell guys that come here asking for advice on what to do at parties/clubs/bars to just have fun and this is exactly what you did. Thanks for proving my point that if you just go out with the mentality of having fun, everything else that happens is a bonus. In this case the fact that you were kissed by one chick and eye fu&ked by another.

Personally, I would have gone for a phone number with the high school chick, but if you plan on gaming her, I think you will do well. Good luck with that one. Game her good, get her in bed, and make her pay for all those mean things she did sexually.
 

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Dude, I'm in a LTR. I'm not gaming her for sex. I'm gaming her for the sheer purpose of gaming her. If I was single, I would game her, the bartender, and the other chick who worked there for sex.
 

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"Wait, I was the dirt UNDER the bottom of the barrel. She was fukkin mean to me back in those days."

LOL, her millions of apologies must've been sweet to hear eh Des?
 

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LOL, her millions of apologies must've been sweet to hear eh Des?
Yeah, and I'm not done yet! The worst thing I could do to this chick is make her attracted to me. She knows I'm taken. Hell, the chick who kissed me knows I'm taken! To women, a relationship or even marriage is just mere competition when it comes to a truly desireable man. They don't care how wrong it is to flirt with a man who's taken, they just care about what they feel.... and they want more of it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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