"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aschillascanbe

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Here's the deal:

I started going to university about 3 months ago. On the 3rd day, I talked to this girl and found out that she knew no one in class, like myself, so we became friends. From the start, she was pretty secretive about having a bf but eventually I opened her up. 2 months in and I began feeling like I am wasting my time even hanging out with this girl any more (because she has a bf).

We have the same modules throughout our entire university years and I'll see her again in 2 months time. I feel like breaking it to her that we should stop sitting together and what not. I don't really care about having her as a friend anyway.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think you are acting like a child. Not sit together anymore? Jeez pal.......

Look, just quit giving a fvck. If the only thing you are after is sex, you will fail miserably. You cant be so obsessed with "sexually escalate or GTFO". The best way to get laid.....is to not TRY to get laid sometimes. This mindset puts the emphasis on things that matter like your mindset and stuff that makes you attractive.
 
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Yea Exception is right. You are a friend to her and it's not going to change. Go out and meet other women.
 
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