"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl from class

aschillascanbe

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Here's the deal:

I started going to university about 3 months ago. On the 3rd day, I talked to this girl and found out that she knew no one in class, like myself, so we became friends. From the start, she was pretty secretive about having a bf but eventually I opened her up. 2 months in and I began feeling like I am wasting my time even hanging out with this girl any more (because she has a bf).

We have the same modules throughout our entire university years and I'll see her again in 2 months time. I feel like breaking it to her that we should stop sitting together and what not. I don't really care about having her as a friend anyway.

What do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheException

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I think you are acting like a child. Not sit together anymore? Jeez pal.......

Look, just quit giving a fvck. If the only thing you are after is sex, you will fail miserably. You cant be so obsessed with "sexually escalate or GTFO". The best way to get laid.....is to not TRY to get laid sometimes. This mindset puts the emphasis on things that matter like your mindset and stuff that makes you attractive.
 

Sofomore

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Yea Exception is right. You are a friend to her and it's not going to change. Go out and meet other women.
 
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