"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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girl from class

aschillascanbe

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Here's the deal:

I started going to university about 3 months ago. On the 3rd day, I talked to this girl and found out that she knew no one in class, like myself, so we became friends. From the start, she was pretty secretive about having a bf but eventually I opened her up. 2 months in and I began feeling like I am wasting my time even hanging out with this girl any more (because she has a bf).

We have the same modules throughout our entire university years and I'll see her again in 2 months time. I feel like breaking it to her that we should stop sitting together and what not. I don't really care about having her as a friend anyway.

What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheException

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I think you are acting like a child. Not sit together anymore? Jeez pal.......

Look, just quit giving a fvck. If the only thing you are after is sex, you will fail miserably. You cant be so obsessed with "sexually escalate or GTFO". The best way to get laid.....is to not TRY to get laid sometimes. This mindset puts the emphasis on things that matter like your mindset and stuff that makes you attractive.
 

Sofomore

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Yea Exception is right. You are a friend to her and it's not going to change. Go out and meet other women.
 
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