"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl from class, should i ask her out?

solo1

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Anyway theres this girl from class, lets call her Lina.

First day of class, she hits on me with some story she made up, introduced each other and we exchanged #s.

She called a couple times to ask about hw she didnt understand, her english isnt perfect. I called her up once to ask also. Funny thing is when i tried to get a conversation going, she'd usually say she'd have to go. And she doesnt call anymore.

But lately the past few weeks, when she comes in to class she ends up sitting next to me. I greet her and treat her like a friend, she does too. Even when im with my buddy talking about whatever, we usually end up pulling her into the convo...well she wants to i can tell. We joke and have fun kidding around in class actually. me her and my friend.

Often i'd catch her looking at me as if in a trance or something, especially if im talking to my friend or if im critiquing work in class.
She's pretty friendly with everyone in class.

Do i ever kino her? nope. what do i know about her? absolutely nothing, except her name. Well for sure i have pretty damn good rapport with her.

The funny thing is i never was interested in her. Looks, she's like a 6.5 probably. And the oddest thing happened, i realized today i actually enjoy her company...it's like the more someone's around you the more you grow fond of them. And what's also been on my mind these past 2 days is her! wtf!

Ask her out? im confused.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Blatant truth

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Making a move is the only way to find out, go for it.
 

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Dear god man .... how many times do people need to say it on here ? - all you gotta do is just ask her for her #, call her in a few days and ask her out ... simple as that ...

You better get use to this if you ever plan on being successful with women .... the number close is the easiest part of it all :D
 

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TxCowBoy.. u didn't read his post did you?

anyhoos.. whats the worst that can happen? you're gonna lose a 6.5 wow..

go for it:woo:

however.. if all you are thinking about is her, I smell oneitis.. get out more!
 

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Sure, ask her out. You never know what might ensue.

You might be very surprised by the quality of the relationship that might ensue. On the other hand, if not, well, what will you have lost?

As the girl is not an 8 to 10, she might be very unsure about her attractiveness and fears to be rejected by you. Ask her to come with you to a pub for the happy hour on Friday.

I suggest that you don't work to establish a "confortable friendship". Target to get into her panties instead. She'll probably welcome it.

Good luck and have fun.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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