"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl from class asked me to study with her

RSanders219

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So like the thread title says it, this girl from my class asked me to study for finals with her this week. We talk during and after class and she seems really cool. Just wondering if this may be a sign of interest as in more than friends? I'm planning on seeing if she wants to hangout at my place after we study and maybe watch some movies. Good or bad idea? all comments welcome. thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Iceberg

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It's not necessarily a sign of interest. Students often...you know....ask each other to study.

As a man, it's kind of your job to build the interest. Not just wait for signs from her. But if you're going to study with her, then feel it out and see how she responds to being alone with you. Maybe something good can come out of it.
 

pipe007

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newbie alert!

well it depends on how the interaction goes... don't make it all serious when you guys are studying...

tease her, joke around... get a feel to see if she jokes back and laughs with you and teases you..

if she does, and it seems like you guys are talking and building the tension more than just studying then you will know that she is interested...

if you are asking how to get a girl interested in you, thats a hard question to answer in one reply but

refer to the DJ bible for a good introduction...
 

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I always get girls asking me to help them study or do homework. This being that I usually always get the highest grades.

I'll say this, make sure you get something and she goes out of her way to meet you up.

Whether it be food, coffee, or attempting to get a kiss or sex.

If she doesn't give you anything then It's too awkward to continue and you'll know that she was only trying to use you!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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