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Girl from class asked me to study with her

RSanders219

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So like the thread title says it, this girl from my class asked me to study for finals with her this week. We talk during and after class and she seems really cool. Just wondering if this may be a sign of interest as in more than friends? I'm planning on seeing if she wants to hangout at my place after we study and maybe watch some movies. Good or bad idea? all comments welcome. thanks!
 

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It's not necessarily a sign of interest. Students often...you know....ask each other to study.

As a man, it's kind of your job to build the interest. Not just wait for signs from her. But if you're going to study with her, then feel it out and see how she responds to being alone with you. Maybe something good can come out of it.
 

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newbie alert!

well it depends on how the interaction goes... don't make it all serious when you guys are studying...

tease her, joke around... get a feel to see if she jokes back and laughs with you and teases you..

if she does, and it seems like you guys are talking and building the tension more than just studying then you will know that she is interested...

if you are asking how to get a girl interested in you, thats a hard question to answer in one reply but

refer to the DJ bible for a good introduction...
 

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I always get girls asking me to help them study or do homework. This being that I usually always get the highest grades.

I'll say this, make sure you get something and she goes out of her way to meet you up.

Whether it be food, coffee, or attempting to get a kiss or sex.

If she doesn't give you anything then It's too awkward to continue and you'll know that she was only trying to use you!
 

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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