So there's this girl that I hooked up with a couple times and talked to in may/june. We haven't talked much lately, especially since the summer started. She called me at 8:30ish, but I was at dinner with a friend so I didn't pick up. When it went to voicemail, I texted her saying "I can't talk right now...what's up?". She hasn't responded yet. Should I text/call her again or just forget about it and not say anything?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl from a couple months ago called
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
VladPatton
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Leave it. Ball's in her court. Most likely she's in a dry spell and you were contacted for validation and out of boredom. If she really wants to talk to you she'll make the time, you replied....once.
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write 1234567890 then tell her its your favorite cab company and ignore the rest
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mmm i duno think we need more info.. It depends on how you left it with her before, what kind of connection you had, etc.
It seems possible that you not answering and then txting back saying "i cant talk, whats up" spun her wheel a bit (maybe thinking you were with another chick) so she wanted to play down her interest or why she was contacting you, after all SHE did reach out to YOU.
It seems possible that you not answering and then txting back saying "i cant talk, whats up" spun her wheel a bit (maybe thinking you were with another chick) so she wanted to play down her interest or why she was contacting you, after all SHE did reach out to YOU.
in may, we talked at parties and hooked up a couple times. before the second time, she brought up the "what are we"/"what is this"/"I don't want to just be friends with benefits" blah blah. I told her to we'd see how things went and to bring it back up in a couple weeks. At this point, she knew that I was talking to other girls and that I wouldn't waste my time on her if things weren't going well. She mentioned how we barely talk outside of parties, and we said that we'd hang out. I hit her up to hang out a couple times, and she couldn't because of legitimate reasons. She didn't try to set up a date herself, so I just stopped trying after that. We lightly talk maybe once every 2-3 weeks or so now at a mutual friend's event. That's pretty much what it was beforejurry said:
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Ah, looking for a return rate on some poosey you already used. I wouldn't use text messaging for an occasion such as this my friend. Talking directly with the lass is always your best option when you can see what she wants to get out of you. Now that you established your communication with the lass, wait for her to get into communication with you. If you don't hear from her don't bother with her my friend. If you get the chance, bend her over and give her another really good reaming.justin11 said:
Gentlemen, it seems you have no mastery about the sexual relations of fU*ck partners. A lass with a horny poosey will float around from lad to lad getting a good reaming. When she calls you looking for the lasso, you oblige by bending her over and giving it to her hard.