I have a group of friends that are girls that I really like to hang out with. They are a lot of fun. I will bust jokes with them all the time and they laugh histerically. When Im hanging out with them, I am clearly the man. The only thing I kind of wonder about is other chick's perception of me. Do you think they think "this guy really knows how to treat women if he has a close group of friends that are women", "he must be too nice of a guy and not be able to really win girls over", or "he's gay"?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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