"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DaneB

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I have a group of friends that are girls that I really like to hang out with. They are a lot of fun. I will bust jokes with them all the time and they laugh histerically. When Im hanging out with them, I am clearly the man. The only thing I kind of wonder about is other chick's perception of me. Do you think they think "this guy really knows how to treat women if he has a close group of friends that are women", "he must be too nice of a guy and not be able to really win girls over", or "he's gay"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DaneB

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What I meant was what do you guys think the perception is of girls that would be outside the circle think of me hanging out with a group of girls?
 

JonJack

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That would depend on the generalisation that girls from your society make on guys with girl friends. Can't you ask your girl friends what they would think if they saw a guy hanging out with only girls? Or don't tell me that their opinions would be biased because they are the only girls in your society that hangs out with a guy.
 
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