"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Girl- Friends

BuckeyeMarc

New Member
Joined
Apr 30, 2005
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
I was wondering how do you related to girls as friends. I am not talking the "friend zone" but to make it a point to have female friends. Even if they are very hot it is a networking numbers game. You meet their friends etc etc. I find it difficult to meet female friends yet have no problem with male friends. I have no idea what to do with these female friends or talk to them about. So how do you all go about with female friends?? Thanks a lot guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

flyinshark

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2005
Messages
481
Reaction score
3
Location
Canada
The reason why you dont have female friends is because women intimidate you. Am i right? Or at least you feel nervous around them. If you're comfortable around women, then you should have no problem having female friends and you wouldn't even be asking what are the things u should do with them, or what to talk about when you are with them.

I used to be shy around girls. I then started forcing myself to talk to them in the same way as when talking to guys. This has helped a lot.

Ask girls to go clubbing with you. If u dont like clubs, invite them to a place where u like going and think they would also enjoy. Invite them along with some of your good buddies, so you dont feel awkward just with the girl (again, i am still assuming that you are shy with girls).

Talk with girls as often as you can. The more u talk to them, the more u get used to them. Talk about stuff you both like, so the discussion flows.

Those were just some thoughts. If u need more specific help, shoot!

flyinshark
 

Joe The Homophobe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2004
Messages
1,212
Reaction score
8
Location
USA
When you have a girlfriend, there is no need for girl-friends. Hang out with your male buddies, do manly stuff like watch sports, play sports, play pool etc. Keep the spot reserved for 'friends' to your pals.

It ain't healthy to just hang out with 1 group. So if you don't have a girlfriend and you only hang out with guys, that is obviously bad. If you have a girlfriend and then you hang out with only your female friends, it ain't good. Try to keep a balance for your own sanity! the balance kept by most healthy people is when you hang out with someone other than your gf, it is usually your buddies.
 

escobar04

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
235
Reaction score
4
Age
39
Location
Sac
I have some hot female friends but they are more like sisters to me

don't you know people from High Shcool or something?

or do what I'mma gonna do

throw a party or a BarBQ
 
Top