"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BuckeyeMarc

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I was wondering how do you related to girls as friends. I am not talking the "friend zone" but to make it a point to have female friends. Even if they are very hot it is a networking numbers game. You meet their friends etc etc. I find it difficult to meet female friends yet have no problem with male friends. I have no idea what to do with these female friends or talk to them about. So how do you all go about with female friends?? Thanks a lot guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The reason why you dont have female friends is because women intimidate you. Am i right? Or at least you feel nervous around them. If you're comfortable around women, then you should have no problem having female friends and you wouldn't even be asking what are the things u should do with them, or what to talk about when you are with them.

I used to be shy around girls. I then started forcing myself to talk to them in the same way as when talking to guys. This has helped a lot.

Ask girls to go clubbing with you. If u dont like clubs, invite them to a place where u like going and think they would also enjoy. Invite them along with some of your good buddies, so you dont feel awkward just with the girl (again, i am still assuming that you are shy with girls).

Talk with girls as often as you can. The more u talk to them, the more u get used to them. Talk about stuff you both like, so the discussion flows.

Those were just some thoughts. If u need more specific help, shoot!

flyinshark
 
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When you have a girlfriend, there is no need for girl-friends. Hang out with your male buddies, do manly stuff like watch sports, play sports, play pool etc. Keep the spot reserved for 'friends' to your pals.

It ain't healthy to just hang out with 1 group. So if you don't have a girlfriend and you only hang out with guys, that is obviously bad. If you have a girlfriend and then you hang out with only your female friends, it ain't good. Try to keep a balance for your own sanity! the balance kept by most healthy people is when you hang out with someone other than your gf, it is usually your buddies.
 
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I have some hot female friends but they are more like sisters to me

don't you know people from High Shcool or something?

or do what I'mma gonna do

throw a party or a BarBQ
 
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