"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl-friend to Girlfriend

yungahdubz

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Yo, i like to be friends with a girl before starting to flirt with her, so i get a feel of what she's like. But what i need to know is how to turn your girl-friend intro your girlfriend. any tips would be great :D , by the way im new to this site and the art of DJing ;) . So tips generally about girls and how to get with them would great.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kgarvey

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em... I can tell you that you apparently like to make the worst most feared mistake ever:down: ,dude why are you doing this to yourself there is a way out of the LJBF zone but it's better to try and keep out of it in the first place rather than jumping straight in it. do you realise that if you do it normally the first time you wouldn't have to ask us how to go from girl-friend to girlfriend,in the first place,anyway I suppose it's a good thing,now you can begin to be informed...read the HS Bible :up:
 

michaelhctam

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kgarvey said:
em... I can tell you that you apparently like to make the worst most feared mistake ever:down: ,dude why are you doing this to yourself there is a way out of the LJBF zone but it's better to try and keep out of it in the first place rather than jumping straight in it. do you realise that if you do it normally the first time you wouldn't have to ask us how to go from girl-friend to girlfriend,in the first place,anyway I suppose it's a good thing,now you can begin to be informed...read the HS Bible :up:
Its true man, once you are in the friendzone there is no going back.

I made this stupid mistake once, I confessed my feelings without the initial spark of attraction and got immediatly put into the LJBF (Lets just be friends) zone but I refused and now she thinks I am an a-hole.

Learn from my mistake. :yes:
 

Lompa

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Well, its a great mistake like posters above me said but you may try this:
Read the ganji games artical, it may help.
Or try to show your sexual side, get high kino.
Gl.
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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FYI, it IS possible to go from the Friend Zone to something more. My boyfriend and I were close friends for several months before we got together. However, it only works if the girl is still attracted to you at the point you want to move from "friends" to "more". That percentage is risky, so I wouldn't recommend it as your first plan of action.

If you like a girl, by all means get to know her, but ask her out soon. Girls can be "rawly attracted" for only so long, ranging from three days to three weeks. If she feels that you just want to be buddies, you're in the FZ.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Shocker

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Don't bother unless you truly love the girl. So unless you're Jim from The Office, forget it.
 

mpimpin

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I was very deep in the friends zone with a girl, and after a lot of hard work and trying a dozen different things (while dating other girls in the meantime) I finally broke out of it. I'm now in an exclusive relationship with my best female friend. It's the best one i've ever been. It's a lot of hardwork and definetely not something you wanna do unless you really love the girl and not just infatuation or some bs.
 
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