"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl-friend to Girlfriend

yungahdubz

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Yo, i like to be friends with a girl before starting to flirt with her, so i get a feel of what she's like. But what i need to know is how to turn your girl-friend intro your girlfriend. any tips would be great :D , by the way im new to this site and the art of DJing ;) . So tips generally about girls and how to get with them would great.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kgarvey

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em... I can tell you that you apparently like to make the worst most feared mistake ever:down: ,dude why are you doing this to yourself there is a way out of the LJBF zone but it's better to try and keep out of it in the first place rather than jumping straight in it. do you realise that if you do it normally the first time you wouldn't have to ask us how to go from girl-friend to girlfriend,in the first place,anyway I suppose it's a good thing,now you can begin to be informed...read the HS Bible :up:
 

michaelhctam

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kgarvey said:
em... I can tell you that you apparently like to make the worst most feared mistake ever:down: ,dude why are you doing this to yourself there is a way out of the LJBF zone but it's better to try and keep out of it in the first place rather than jumping straight in it. do you realise that if you do it normally the first time you wouldn't have to ask us how to go from girl-friend to girlfriend,in the first place,anyway I suppose it's a good thing,now you can begin to be informed...read the HS Bible :up:
Its true man, once you are in the friendzone there is no going back.

I made this stupid mistake once, I confessed my feelings without the initial spark of attraction and got immediatly put into the LJBF (Lets just be friends) zone but I refused and now she thinks I am an a-hole.

Learn from my mistake. :yes:
 

Lompa

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Well, its a great mistake like posters above me said but you may try this:
Read the ganji games artical, it may help.
Or try to show your sexual side, get high kino.
Gl.
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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FYI, it IS possible to go from the Friend Zone to something more. My boyfriend and I were close friends for several months before we got together. However, it only works if the girl is still attracted to you at the point you want to move from "friends" to "more". That percentage is risky, so I wouldn't recommend it as your first plan of action.

If you like a girl, by all means get to know her, but ask her out soon. Girls can be "rawly attracted" for only so long, ranging from three days to three weeks. If she feels that you just want to be buddies, you're in the FZ.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Shocker

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Don't bother unless you truly love the girl. So unless you're Jim from The Office, forget it.
 

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I was very deep in the friends zone with a girl, and after a lot of hard work and trying a dozen different things (while dating other girls in the meantime) I finally broke out of it. I'm now in an exclusive relationship with my best female friend. It's the best one i've ever been. It's a lot of hardwork and definetely not something you wanna do unless you really love the girl and not just infatuation or some bs.
 
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