I have a friend of mine who is going through a hard time with guys right now. I do not want to get involved with her since she would have to be the desperate AFC on the girl side of things. Anyway Im trying to help her with stuff i have learned from here and all but its kinda hard to convert it from the guy to girl viewpoint. Can i get some links to female sites like this and any other info that might help her get back on her feet and be more confident about her self ect.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"girl" friend of mine needs some help.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So what you're asking from us is links to female websites that offer dating advice or life advice to help you help her? That contradicts with your statement "I do not want to get involved with her since she would have to be the desperate AFC on the girl side of things" (Which that statement was self-contradictory in itself.)
Buddy, advice websites can only offer so much, the rest is much to be discovered by yourself.
Buddy, advice websites can only offer so much, the rest is much to be discovered by yourself.
ok.
well.. I dont want to get involved with her romanticly then. She already says she liked me and stuff but she has like told me her life story (good and bad) and i dont want to get with her that way, but through MSN i can tell she was like me in the past (Lines like "What did I do wrong" Why wont he call me" ect. Lota AFC like issues it sounds like) and I dono how i could just help her find a path that will help her self esteme and such.
well.. I dont want to get involved with her romanticly then. She already says she liked me and stuff but she has like told me her life story (good and bad) and i dont want to get with her that way, but through MSN i can tell she was like me in the past (Lines like "What did I do wrong" Why wont he call me" ect. Lota AFC like issues it sounds like) and I dono how i could just help her find a path that will help her self esteme and such.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
yes
thats exactly it. Im just wondering is there anything I can do to help or should I just slowly fade out? she gets sad when other guys she thinks like her ban her on MSN and I cant be so cruel to do the same.
thats exactly it. Im just wondering is there anything I can do to help or should I just slowly fade out? she gets sad when other guys she thinks like her ban her on MSN and I cant be so cruel to do the same.
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Tell her not to try so hard...that if she comes across as too clingy and needy it scares guys off and freaks them out and is a turn off just like it does a girl. Tell her to be more of a challenge, not to tell a guy everything about her right away, to make him wonder about her.Originally posted by IM0001
thats exactly it. Im just wondering is there anything I can do to help or should I just slowly fade out? she gets sad when other guys she thinks like her ban her on MSN and I cant be so cruel to do the same.
Knock yourself out!
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I have a friend of mine who is going through a hard time with guys right now. I do not want to get involved with her since she would have to be the desperate AFC on the girl side of things. Anyway Im trying to help her with stuff i have learned from here and all but its kinda hard to convert it from the guy to girl viewpoint. Can i get some links to female sites like this and any other info that might help her get back on her feet and be more confident about her self ect.
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