I have a friend of mine who is going through a hard time with guys right now. I do not want to get involved with her since she would have to be the desperate AFC on the girl side of things. Anyway Im trying to help her with stuff i have learned from here and all but its kinda hard to convert it from the guy to girl viewpoint. Can i get some links to female sites like this and any other info that might help her get back on her feet and be more confident about her self ect.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"girl" friend of mine needs some help.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So what you're asking from us is links to female websites that offer dating advice or life advice to help you help her? That contradicts with your statement "I do not want to get involved with her since she would have to be the desperate AFC on the girl side of things" (Which that statement was self-contradictory in itself.)
Buddy, advice websites can only offer so much, the rest is much to be discovered by yourself.
Buddy, advice websites can only offer so much, the rest is much to be discovered by yourself.
ok.
well.. I dont want to get involved with her romanticly then. She already says she liked me and stuff but she has like told me her life story (good and bad) and i dont want to get with her that way, but through MSN i can tell she was like me in the past (Lines like "What did I do wrong" Why wont he call me" ect. Lota AFC like issues it sounds like) and I dono how i could just help her find a path that will help her self esteme and such.
well.. I dont want to get involved with her romanticly then. She already says she liked me and stuff but she has like told me her life story (good and bad) and i dont want to get with her that way, but through MSN i can tell she was like me in the past (Lines like "What did I do wrong" Why wont he call me" ect. Lota AFC like issues it sounds like) and I dono how i could just help her find a path that will help her self esteme and such.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
yes
thats exactly it. Im just wondering is there anything I can do to help or should I just slowly fade out? she gets sad when other guys she thinks like her ban her on MSN and I cant be so cruel to do the same.
thats exactly it. Im just wondering is there anything I can do to help or should I just slowly fade out? she gets sad when other guys she thinks like her ban her on MSN and I cant be so cruel to do the same.
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Tell her not to try so hard...that if she comes across as too clingy and needy it scares guys off and freaks them out and is a turn off just like it does a girl. Tell her to be more of a challenge, not to tell a guy everything about her right away, to make him wonder about her.Originally posted by IM0001
thats exactly it. Im just wondering is there anything I can do to help or should I just slowly fade out? she gets sad when other guys she thinks like her ban her on MSN and I cant be so cruel to do the same.
Knock yourself out!
Laterz...
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I have a friend of mine who is going through a hard time with guys right now. I do not want to get involved with her since she would have to be the desperate AFC on the girl side of things. Anyway Im trying to help her with stuff i have learned from here and all but its kinda hard to convert it from the guy to girl viewpoint. Can i get some links to female sites like this and any other info that might help her get back on her feet and be more confident about her self ect.
Laterz...