"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl 'friend' moved, now became girlfriend over Facebook

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I have this female friend that i haven't talk to sinced she moved, she lives 1 hour and a half away
We found each other on Facebook and began chatting for several days straight, and told me she liked me, and ever since, we've been talking everyday. As we talk she vaguely tells me, she wants to be with me after we graduate high school, (maybe she could be the one?)

wat im askin is, should i continue flirting and maybe date other girls, while me and my other girlfriend are continuing our intimacy?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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bdieu said:
I have this female friend that i haven't talk to sinced she moved, she lives 1 hour and a half away
We found each other on Facebook and began chatting for several days straight, and told me she liked me, and ever since, we've been talking everyday. As we talk she vaguely tells me, she wants to be with me after we graduate high school, (maybe she could be the one?)

wat im askin is, should i continue flirting and maybe date other girls, while me and my other girlfriend are continuing our intimacy?
Wow. Teens these days....

Phew okay.

1. NO, she is not the one. Get that out of your head cuz its just going to lead you to one-itis. How old are you? 15? 16? 17? Your the LAST person to be contemplating over whether a girl is "the one".

2. Do not go out with her, and do not call yourself bf and gf. Long distance relationships never, I repeat, NEVER work out. This girl lives a freakin hour and a half away, you'll never see her, yet you still wanna maintain a relationship over the internet/phone?! That is utterly pathetic and unacceptable. (not to mention you met her on facebook)

3. End this stupid talking with this girl, because it will lead absolutely nowhere, will be a total waste of time, and will only result in you getting more attached to a girl you met on the internet whom you will never see.

4. Go for girls that you can actually SEE in person and actually live nearby.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Wow. Teens these days....

Phew okay.

1. NO, she is not the one. Get that out of your head cuz its just going to lead you to one-itis. How old are you? 15? 16? 17? Your the LAST person to be contemplating over whether a girl is "the one".

2. Do not go out with her, and do not call yourself bf and gf. Long distance relationships never, I repeat, NEVER work out. This girl lives a freakin hour and a half away, you'll never see her, yet you still wanna maintain a relationship over the internet/phone?! That is utterly pathetic and unacceptable. (not to mention you met her on facebook)

3. End this stupid talking with this girl, because it will lead absolutely nowhere, will be a total waste of time, and will only result in you getting more attached to a girl you met on the internet whom you will never see.

4. Go for girls that you can actually SEE in person and actually live nearby.
i've met this gurl in school before, i didn't met "meet" her on the internet (im not that stupid!!)
she had moved recently, we juss keeping contact wit each other

but i get the message that i should look for someone else
 

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*facepalm*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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eaglez1177

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Lol wow is this legit the same person?
 

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God this guy is going to end up raping her.

Just move on dude. Seriously. Your last topic was creepy enough. Its high school you'll get over it and college is ten times the experience anyway.
 
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