"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl 'friend' moved, now became girlfriend over Facebook

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I have this female friend that i haven't talk to sinced she moved, she lives 1 hour and a half away
We found each other on Facebook and began chatting for several days straight, and told me she liked me, and ever since, we've been talking everyday. As we talk she vaguely tells me, she wants to be with me after we graduate high school, (maybe she could be the one?)

wat im askin is, should i continue flirting and maybe date other girls, while me and my other girlfriend are continuing our intimacy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eaglez1177

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bdieu said:
I have this female friend that i haven't talk to sinced she moved, she lives 1 hour and a half away
We found each other on Facebook and began chatting for several days straight, and told me she liked me, and ever since, we've been talking everyday. As we talk she vaguely tells me, she wants to be with me after we graduate high school, (maybe she could be the one?)

wat im askin is, should i continue flirting and maybe date other girls, while me and my other girlfriend are continuing our intimacy?
Wow. Teens these days....

Phew okay.

1. NO, she is not the one. Get that out of your head cuz its just going to lead you to one-itis. How old are you? 15? 16? 17? Your the LAST person to be contemplating over whether a girl is "the one".

2. Do not go out with her, and do not call yourself bf and gf. Long distance relationships never, I repeat, NEVER work out. This girl lives a freakin hour and a half away, you'll never see her, yet you still wanna maintain a relationship over the internet/phone?! That is utterly pathetic and unacceptable. (not to mention you met her on facebook)

3. End this stupid talking with this girl, because it will lead absolutely nowhere, will be a total waste of time, and will only result in you getting more attached to a girl you met on the internet whom you will never see.

4. Go for girls that you can actually SEE in person and actually live nearby.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Wow. Teens these days....

Phew okay.

1. NO, she is not the one. Get that out of your head cuz its just going to lead you to one-itis. How old are you? 15? 16? 17? Your the LAST person to be contemplating over whether a girl is "the one".

2. Do not go out with her, and do not call yourself bf and gf. Long distance relationships never, I repeat, NEVER work out. This girl lives a freakin hour and a half away, you'll never see her, yet you still wanna maintain a relationship over the internet/phone?! That is utterly pathetic and unacceptable. (not to mention you met her on facebook)

3. End this stupid talking with this girl, because it will lead absolutely nowhere, will be a total waste of time, and will only result in you getting more attached to a girl you met on the internet whom you will never see.

4. Go for girls that you can actually SEE in person and actually live nearby.
i've met this gurl in school before, i didn't met "meet" her on the internet (im not that stupid!!)
she had moved recently, we juss keeping contact wit each other

but i get the message that i should look for someone else
 

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*facepalm*
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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Lol wow is this legit the same person?
 

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God this guy is going to end up raping her.

Just move on dude. Seriously. Your last topic was creepy enough. Its high school you'll get over it and college is ten times the experience anyway.
 
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