"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl flirts with a friend and I at the same time, shows me IOI's, wants attention?

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This friend is my best friend and I wouldn't let a girl screw our relationship up. But I'm curious about what's going on here.

When us three hang out, she flirts with us both.

She cuddles with him, gets piggy back rides from him, they hold each other and ****, things like that.

At the same time, she tells me she wants to kiss me, asks me if I would date her, says things like "would you get mad if I kissed you?". Calls me handsome, always takes photos of us together.

My friend and I notice this but we don't have a problem with it cause we're just really good friends and we don't allow this to ruin our friendship.
I tease her, make her laugh constantly, flirt back sometimes. Shes confused as to whether I like her or not. I give her attention and take it away, sometimes I act like I like her and sometimes I ignore her. Her interest seemed to spike.

My buddy doesn't flirt back, but they've kissed a few times, the kissing has stopped about a month ago though and nothing is happening between them.
What I'm wondering here is, is she actually attracted to one of us or is she just doing it for the attention? She is showing genuine ioi's here and I do want to get with her, but at the same time I don't want to be played by a girl who only wants attention.

Thanks guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if youre good friends with both of them, dont fvck up your friendship, just keep cool, spin some plates. they best way to find out if her feelings for you are more than platonic is to see other girls. shell get jealous if she likes you and if she doesnt, then youve already got other girls.
 

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Back off. She has been showing out her true colors this whole time ! Shes an attention wh0re bro ! Falling for these type of hoes is gona FCK your life up dude.These girls are super good at making dudes fall for them so be careful to not catch any type of real feelings. Spin other plates !

Shes a ho and should be treated like one...Ask her for a *******. Oh and BTW let your friend know shes an attention wh0re so he doesn't fall for the trap also. You two aren't the only dudes shes doing this with. Heck you and your best friend should take turns smashing this ho
 

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Women are emotional spastics. My advice, shower her with attention, flirt, escalate, drop sexual connotations, then disappear for a week or two, then reappear and repeat.

You'll be balls deep in her within 6 weeks.
 
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youngmack said:
Back off. She has been showing out her true colors this whole time ! Shes an attention wh0re bro ! Falling for these type of hoes is gona FCK your life up dude.These girls are super good at making dudes fall for them so be careful to not catch any type of real feelings. Spin other plates !

Shes a ho and should be treated like one...Ask her for a *******. Oh and BTW let your friend know shes an attention wh0re so he doesn't fall for the trap also. You two aren't the only dudes shes doing this with. Heck you and your best friend should take turns smashing this ho
Lol ok dude, relax. Shes still a virgin at 20
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Promptly give her the ultimatum: She gets DP'ed or she can GTFO.
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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Man just STOP
you're being AFC right now.

Just make a move, next time she giggles at you or smiles, or TELLS YOU SHE WANTS TO KISS YOU
Just ****ing do it, be aman, get out of your shell
If she ejects then boom, problem solved
Your friend can have her and you'll have spent all this time saved on thinking about her to work towards other chicks.

If I could go back in time I would have acted this way my whole life through jr.high/high school
Does she like me? is she keen?
who cares, DHV, make a move, follow through, BE A MAN
 

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*grunch*

She wants you both to either run a train or gang bang her. The few chicks I've known that flirted with me and my friends sucked all our ****s in a garage, later let them run a train on her, one time we picked her up after a high school dance (she went to a diff school) and we all went back to back in the room on her mouth. Another one let me and a friend fvck her, he took the pvss first, I took the mouth, after he nutted, I ****ed her pvss (always use protection).

Long story short, she doesn't want either/or, she wants both either consecutively or simultaneously. Cheers!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Young Juan

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RustleYourJimmies said:
Lol ok dude, relax. Shes still a virgin at 20
Every girl is either a virgin or has slept with 5 or less dudes. Doesn't mean they're not freaks, it just means blow jobs don't count.

Tips: Don't kiss her lips, kiss her neck, tongue her neck, don't suck her neck hard, blow in her ear, bite her ear lobes, grab her hair firmly at the base of her neck, aggressively tongue her throat, bite her lips, smack her ass, rub her crotch, rub her pvss, make her touch your caulk, undo her bra, take off her shirt, pull out your caulk, press her head/mouth down and onto your caulk, make her suck for 5 to 10 mins, lead her to your bed, put on a rubber, spit on fingers, lube caulk and pvss, insert penis, pump vigorously, bust a nut, tell her lets just be friends, don't catch feelings

If you lose your place, refer to tips.

Since 1998!
 
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