Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl flirts with a friend and I at the same time, shows me IOI's, wants attention?

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This friend is my best friend and I wouldn't let a girl screw our relationship up. But I'm curious about what's going on here.

When us three hang out, she flirts with us both.

She cuddles with him, gets piggy back rides from him, they hold each other and ****, things like that.

At the same time, she tells me she wants to kiss me, asks me if I would date her, says things like "would you get mad if I kissed you?". Calls me handsome, always takes photos of us together.

My friend and I notice this but we don't have a problem with it cause we're just really good friends and we don't allow this to ruin our friendship.
I tease her, make her laugh constantly, flirt back sometimes. Shes confused as to whether I like her or not. I give her attention and take it away, sometimes I act like I like her and sometimes I ignore her. Her interest seemed to spike.

My buddy doesn't flirt back, but they've kissed a few times, the kissing has stopped about a month ago though and nothing is happening between them.
What I'm wondering here is, is she actually attracted to one of us or is she just doing it for the attention? She is showing genuine ioi's here and I do want to get with her, but at the same time I don't want to be played by a girl who only wants attention.

Thanks guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth

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if youre good friends with both of them, dont fvck up your friendship, just keep cool, spin some plates. they best way to find out if her feelings for you are more than platonic is to see other girls. shell get jealous if she likes you and if she doesnt, then youve already got other girls.
 

youngmack

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Back off. She has been showing out her true colors this whole time ! Shes an attention wh0re bro ! Falling for these type of hoes is gona FCK your life up dude.These girls are super good at making dudes fall for them so be careful to not catch any type of real feelings. Spin other plates !

Shes a ho and should be treated like one...Ask her for a *******. Oh and BTW let your friend know shes an attention wh0re so he doesn't fall for the trap also. You two aren't the only dudes shes doing this with. Heck you and your best friend should take turns smashing this ho
 

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Women are emotional spastics. My advice, shower her with attention, flirt, escalate, drop sexual connotations, then disappear for a week or two, then reappear and repeat.

You'll be balls deep in her within 6 weeks.
 
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youngmack said:
Back off. She has been showing out her true colors this whole time ! Shes an attention wh0re bro ! Falling for these type of hoes is gona FCK your life up dude.These girls are super good at making dudes fall for them so be careful to not catch any type of real feelings. Spin other plates !

Shes a ho and should be treated like one...Ask her for a *******. Oh and BTW let your friend know shes an attention wh0re so he doesn't fall for the trap also. You two aren't the only dudes shes doing this with. Heck you and your best friend should take turns smashing this ho
Lol ok dude, relax. Shes still a virgin at 20
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Promptly give her the ultimatum: She gets DP'ed or she can GTFO.
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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Man just STOP
you're being AFC right now.

Just make a move, next time she giggles at you or smiles, or TELLS YOU SHE WANTS TO KISS YOU
Just ****ing do it, be aman, get out of your shell
If she ejects then boom, problem solved
Your friend can have her and you'll have spent all this time saved on thinking about her to work towards other chicks.

If I could go back in time I would have acted this way my whole life through jr.high/high school
Does she like me? is she keen?
who cares, DHV, make a move, follow through, BE A MAN
 

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*grunch*

She wants you both to either run a train or gang bang her. The few chicks I've known that flirted with me and my friends sucked all our ****s in a garage, later let them run a train on her, one time we picked her up after a high school dance (she went to a diff school) and we all went back to back in the room on her mouth. Another one let me and a friend fvck her, he took the pvss first, I took the mouth, after he nutted, I ****ed her pvss (always use protection).

Long story short, she doesn't want either/or, she wants both either consecutively or simultaneously. Cheers!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Young Juan

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RustleYourJimmies said:
Lol ok dude, relax. Shes still a virgin at 20
Every girl is either a virgin or has slept with 5 or less dudes. Doesn't mean they're not freaks, it just means blow jobs don't count.

Tips: Don't kiss her lips, kiss her neck, tongue her neck, don't suck her neck hard, blow in her ear, bite her ear lobes, grab her hair firmly at the base of her neck, aggressively tongue her throat, bite her lips, smack her ass, rub her crotch, rub her pvss, make her touch your caulk, undo her bra, take off her shirt, pull out your caulk, press her head/mouth down and onto your caulk, make her suck for 5 to 10 mins, lead her to your bed, put on a rubber, spit on fingers, lube caulk and pvss, insert penis, pump vigorously, bust a nut, tell her lets just be friends, don't catch feelings

If you lose your place, refer to tips.

Since 1998!
 
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