I met this girl in class about a month ago. She recently broke up with her bf of 2 years. We started going out on small dates, going out to eat, and etc. Last week I asked her out to watch taken 2, and after that dinner. She accepted. Today I got a text from her saying "Changed of plan for tomorrow, my girls, and Moms are going out, so I can't. I'm sorry! I replied back with "yeah sure no prob".. What should I do. I still have to see her for another whole month in class; should I stop talking to her or what? Thank you
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl flaked on me
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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Sounds like she is on the rebound, but now has buyers remorse.killa19 said:
She has low interest level now.
It could rebound, but don't grill her about it, pretend it never happened.
Ask her out again in a few weeks, and if she accepts cool, if not, doesn't
matter cause you have other options.
Purefilth
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Act like you normally would, she probably did have all the girls and moms go out together. These things happen.
Get her over to yours for a 'movie'.
then she's in your territory - controlled environment, and escalate to svxxin 'dat @ss!!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197542
^^^click this link and read if youre rusty on escalating ^^^
Get her over to yours for a 'movie'.
then she's in your territory - controlled environment, and escalate to svxxin 'dat @ss!!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197542
^^^click this link and read if youre rusty on escalating ^^^
Your mistakes in bold.killa19 said:
First of all, Taken 2??? Did you spend the first 2 trips to Wendy's talking about how she loved Taken 1??? Seriously, what girl wouldn't dump a man who asks her to watch the sequel to a video game that she never heard of, and which is rated 14 out of 100 (F)? And to boot, it's a Guy Film about espionage starring some old dude from Schindlers List?? Movie dates are generally bad enough, but for the love of God pick one she likes.
Next, if a girl cancels or declines a date and doesn't provide a rain check, you don't reply or expect another date. Go NC until she replies (in the 1-2 week zone there is a chance - after that generally none).
Third, don't go on small dates without establishing romance.
Fourth, you never act mad enough to avoid her. You never care enough to act mad. The best attitude is "no matter what she says I'll laugh at her" and "I hope she cancells so I can go out with someone better".
Let her see you happy and hopefully in better shape and with another girl by next month.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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bigneil said:
Your thinking of "Tekken 2" genius not "Taken 2",
Taken 2 is an action thriller with Liam Neeson, not the video game.
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Unfortunately, Tekken isn't sexy to a woman. There are no groupies for video games, unless of course the men playing them are top 10% men.gspshields2 said: