I met this girl in class about a month ago. She recently broke up with her bf of 2 years. We started going out on small dates, going out to eat, and etc. Last week I asked her out to watch taken 2, and after that dinner. She accepted. Today I got a text from her saying "Changed of plan for tomorrow, my girls, and Moms are going out, so I can't. I'm sorry! I replied back with "yeah sure no prob".. What should I do. I still have to see her for another whole month in class; should I stop talking to her or what? Thank you
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl flaked on me
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Sounds like she is on the rebound, but now has buyers remorse.killa19 said:
She has low interest level now.
It could rebound, but don't grill her about it, pretend it never happened.
Ask her out again in a few weeks, and if she accepts cool, if not, doesn't
matter cause you have other options.
Purefilth
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Act like you normally would, she probably did have all the girls and moms go out together. These things happen.
Get her over to yours for a 'movie'.
then she's in your territory - controlled environment, and escalate to svxxin 'dat @ss!!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197542
^^^click this link and read if youre rusty on escalating ^^^
Get her over to yours for a 'movie'.
then she's in your territory - controlled environment, and escalate to svxxin 'dat @ss!!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=197542
^^^click this link and read if youre rusty on escalating ^^^
Your mistakes in bold.killa19 said:
First of all, Taken 2??? Did you spend the first 2 trips to Wendy's talking about how she loved Taken 1??? Seriously, what girl wouldn't dump a man who asks her to watch the sequel to a video game that she never heard of, and which is rated 14 out of 100 (F)? And to boot, it's a Guy Film about espionage starring some old dude from Schindlers List?? Movie dates are generally bad enough, but for the love of God pick one she likes.
Next, if a girl cancels or declines a date and doesn't provide a rain check, you don't reply or expect another date. Go NC until she replies (in the 1-2 week zone there is a chance - after that generally none).
Third, don't go on small dates without establishing romance.
Fourth, you never act mad enough to avoid her. You never care enough to act mad. The best attitude is "no matter what she says I'll laugh at her" and "I hope she cancells so I can go out with someone better".
Let her see you happy and hopefully in better shape and with another girl by next month.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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bigneil said:
Your thinking of "Tekken 2" genius not "Taken 2",
Taken 2 is an action thriller with Liam Neeson, not the video game.
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Unfortunately, Tekken isn't sexy to a woman. There are no groupies for video games, unless of course the men playing them are top 10% men.gspshields2 said: