"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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Girl flaked, but offered to watch movie at my house instead

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Set up a date with this chick that I know from school for a few months and she flaked (probably due to my indecisiveness). However she instead offered to come over to my house and watch a movie on Tuesday. How should I best approach the situation from now on?

Thanks
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hmm...

This is one of those "What do I do, I don't know if she likes me" questions....
If she wants to come over to watch a movie, the question is, Do you have a problem with that?

Let things roll.
 
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WHAT?

If you're alone at home and she knows it, be sure she knows EXACTLY what she wants. Act accordingly.
 
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Stop being indecisive and tell her to come over on tuesday.

She flaked, but she counter-offered, so you're still in.

Hell, imo, coming over to watch a movie is way better than going out. You two can be really alone and things can get intimate, quickly. She's already at your house, so half the work is done.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bettis76 said:
Set up a date with this chick that I know from school for a few months and she flaked (probably due to my indecisiveness). However she instead offered to come over to my house and watch a movie on Tuesday. How should I best approach the situation from now on?

Thanks
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It doesn't count as a flake if she cancels and offers an alternative. The alternative sounds like fvcking her. I suggest you say yes.
 
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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
Stop being indecisive and tell her to come over on tuesday.

She flaked, but she counter-offered, so you're still in. ...
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Why don't guys understand this???
 
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Id agree with everybody with the idea that youre in. What Id really like to ask though is if youre still in HS? You talk about knowing her from school and how she flaked but will come over to your house on Tuesday....so Im not trying to offend you in anyway.

Do you know how old she is? Ive had interesting stories in HS where the girl would completely lie about her age.(I was 18 and she says shes 16 or 17 but shes actually 12 when I come to meet her.AHHHH!!!! Thats why I always try to find out her age and the age on consent in your state before everything.) I still know girls now out of HS that lie about their age but not as much as ones that are still in teeny wenny high. My main point is: Everybody likes sex.:) (nomatter how old they are)

If you arent in HS I apologize because I dont mean to make this look like a kiddie problem. We all are a family here trying to figure out the same thing: Girls.

Bettis76 said:
Set up a date with this chick that I know from school for a few months and she flaked (probably due to my indecisiveness). However she instead offered to come over to my house and watch a movie on Tuesday. How should I best approach the situation from now on?

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Half the questions on this board can be answered with "just fvck her." This, fortunately for you, is one of them :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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