"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl finds out from others that I want her for prom

Jamal

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Ok here is the deal, my friend was going to hook me up with this girl for prom and when he talked to her, she told him she already heard that i wanted to ask her for prom. Its kinda weird though because I never talked to this girl before and she is in my class. Now im forced to ask her tomorrow and I don't know how to do it. She also told my friend she had some other guys in mind so I don't know what is my chances?...Also I feel lyk I can't talk to her now till I approach girls at the mall over the weekend for some practice so I can have experience to tell her...what you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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You're asking her to prom... not to go have sex in your backseat... you don't need practice other than small talk, flirt, and then asking her straight forward if she wants to go with you.

Asking a girl to prom is a MILLION times easier than asking a girl on a date... because they want it, and definitely expect it.

It can be as simple as:

"Hey, what's up? I was talking to a buddy of mine and you were a part of the topic, I hear that you heard I wanted to take you to prom, well... how about it? I'm sure it can be loads of fun."

...while doing the salesman's nod to assume her accepting.

If she accepts, get the number, tell her "Great! I'm sure it'll be great. Make sure you look good for me, don't let me down! I'll call you sometime soon to make some plans!"

If she turns it down, put on your sad face, cross your arms behind your back, hang your head low, and kick the floor, sigh and say, "Shucks..." and snap your fingers.
 

intrextrovert

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Either above or just do it how you would, pretend you don't know that she knows you want to. Living in a small town people have a habit of letting things get around even with good intentions, and I usually just act like I would if people didn't know.
 
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