"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl finds out from others that I want her for prom

Jamal

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Ok here is the deal, my friend was going to hook me up with this girl for prom and when he talked to her, she told him she already heard that i wanted to ask her for prom. Its kinda weird though because I never talked to this girl before and she is in my class. Now im forced to ask her tomorrow and I don't know how to do it. She also told my friend she had some other guys in mind so I don't know what is my chances?...Also I feel lyk I can't talk to her now till I approach girls at the mall over the weekend for some practice so I can have experience to tell her...what you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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You're asking her to prom... not to go have sex in your backseat... you don't need practice other than small talk, flirt, and then asking her straight forward if she wants to go with you.

Asking a girl to prom is a MILLION times easier than asking a girl on a date... because they want it, and definitely expect it.

It can be as simple as:

"Hey, what's up? I was talking to a buddy of mine and you were a part of the topic, I hear that you heard I wanted to take you to prom, well... how about it? I'm sure it can be loads of fun."

...while doing the salesman's nod to assume her accepting.

If she accepts, get the number, tell her "Great! I'm sure it'll be great. Make sure you look good for me, don't let me down! I'll call you sometime soon to make some plans!"

If she turns it down, put on your sad face, cross your arms behind your back, hang your head low, and kick the floor, sigh and say, "Shucks..." and snap your fingers.
 

intrextrovert

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Either above or just do it how you would, pretend you don't know that she knows you want to. Living in a small town people have a habit of letting things get around even with good intentions, and I usually just act like I would if people didn't know.
 
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