"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Avn_0903

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What do u think when the girl go through every single detail of your wallet from looking at how much cash I have to my small phone book. Feels like she's testing me financially lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She has no business going through your wallet. None whatsoever.
 
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If thats the case you have one of two options...

1) Stand your ground, make it clear to her that you don't find it funny and don't consider it a joke and see it as disrespectful...

2) Play by her game and start going through her purse.

...take your pick.
 
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Funny how you can come on as an anonymous user on an internet forum and say how you don't like it but you don't feel man enough to tell a woman to her face.

...that says a lot about why she gets to do it in the first place. Not trying to shoot you down, but I hope this motivates you to look at yourself and stay more on this site and focus on changing and becoming the Alpha you really are.
 
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I smell golddigger!

That's fixable, just say "NEXT!"

But I also smell someone who is sleeping! That's fixable, too!*PIMPSLAP!*

*Shakes Avn* Wake up!

There are possibly more important things to worrie about! (Yourself!).

Later. ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She's not looking for cash, she's looking for pictures of exes and phone numbers of girls.

Still not right though, no.
 
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SunnyD said:
She's not looking for cash, she's looking for pictures of exes and phone numbers of girls.
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Or to see if he has any condoms :D
 
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The only thing that pisses me off more than this is when you set your phone down -- walk away and come back and they're looking through your contacts, pictures, and text messages.
 
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Papermoon said:
She has no business going through your wallet. None whatsoever.
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My thoughts exactly. Listen to this guy. You need to stand your ground.
 
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stand said:
The only thing that pisses me off more than this is when you set your phone down -- walk away and come back and they're looking through your contacts, pictures, and text messages.
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Never happened to me personally, but I'd be P1SS3D, if a girl did this to my phone. I'd be majorly annoyed :cuss: :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alls I know is I'd make damn sure she came across the numbers of other women.
 
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How did she get your wallet in the first place? Its meant to stay in your pocket!!

Snooping however innocent isn't justified!

A woman who touches your wallet just gave you the right to unravel her handbag and study her brand of tampoons.

Bet she'd be pleased about that. Fair is fair!
 
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Alls I know is I'd make damn sure she came across the numbers of other women.
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The pictures on my cell phone were much much better, trust me.
 
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Lol we were looking at each other's ID picture and teasing each other about them, and I just happened to put my wallet on the table and the devil saw it and took her chance.
 
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if it is someone I do not have a relationship with than HELL NO!

if it is someone I bang now and than HELL NO!

if it is someone that I'm dating HELL NO!

if it is my wife! I probably gave up that right when I asked her to marry me. (but that's still far away for me)

anyway there are lines to be drawn. and your wallet is as personall as it can get. I would never ever allow anyone to look in it.. not even my parents.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey I also want to ask this, she ask me to go to a movie with her, the funny thing is the movie is "****oris", which we all no what it is. Do u think this is a good sign or am I in the friend zone?
 
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Avn_0903 said:
Hey I also want to ask this, she ask me to go to a movie with her, the funny thing is the movie is "****oris", which we all no what it is. Do u think this is a good sign or am I in the friend zone?
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do you really think you can tell what a girl is thinking by overanalyzing the name of a movie?
 
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i've had a few girls ask to see my phone.
any ideas on why this is?
 
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