"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl examine your wallet

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Avn_0903

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What do u think when the girl go through every single detail of your wallet from looking at how much cash I have to my small phone book. Feels like she's testing me financially lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She has no business going through your wallet. None whatsoever.
 
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If thats the case you have one of two options...

1) Stand your ground, make it clear to her that you don't find it funny and don't consider it a joke and see it as disrespectful...

2) Play by her game and start going through her purse.

...take your pick.
 
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Funny how you can come on as an anonymous user on an internet forum and say how you don't like it but you don't feel man enough to tell a woman to her face.

...that says a lot about why she gets to do it in the first place. Not trying to shoot you down, but I hope this motivates you to look at yourself and stay more on this site and focus on changing and becoming the Alpha you really are.
 
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I smell golddigger!

That's fixable, just say "NEXT!"

But I also smell someone who is sleeping! That's fixable, too!*PIMPSLAP!*

*Shakes Avn* Wake up!

There are possibly more important things to worrie about! (Yourself!).

Later. ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's not looking for cash, she's looking for pictures of exes and phone numbers of girls.

Still not right though, no.
 
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SunnyD said:
She's not looking for cash, she's looking for pictures of exes and phone numbers of girls.
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Or to see if he has any condoms :D
 
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The only thing that pisses me off more than this is when you set your phone down -- walk away and come back and they're looking through your contacts, pictures, and text messages.
 
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Papermoon said:
She has no business going through your wallet. None whatsoever.
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My thoughts exactly. Listen to this guy. You need to stand your ground.
 
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stand said:
The only thing that pisses me off more than this is when you set your phone down -- walk away and come back and they're looking through your contacts, pictures, and text messages.
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Never happened to me personally, but I'd be P1SS3D, if a girl did this to my phone. I'd be majorly annoyed :cuss: :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alls I know is I'd make damn sure she came across the numbers of other women.
 
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How did she get your wallet in the first place? Its meant to stay in your pocket!!

Snooping however innocent isn't justified!

A woman who touches your wallet just gave you the right to unravel her handbag and study her brand of tampoons.

Bet she'd be pleased about that. Fair is fair!
 
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Alls I know is I'd make damn sure she came across the numbers of other women.
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The pictures on my cell phone were much much better, trust me.
 
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Lol we were looking at each other's ID picture and teasing each other about them, and I just happened to put my wallet on the table and the devil saw it and took her chance.
 
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if it is someone I do not have a relationship with than HELL NO!

if it is someone I bang now and than HELL NO!

if it is someone that I'm dating HELL NO!

if it is my wife! I probably gave up that right when I asked her to marry me. (but that's still far away for me)

anyway there are lines to be drawn. and your wallet is as personall as it can get. I would never ever allow anyone to look in it.. not even my parents.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey I also want to ask this, she ask me to go to a movie with her, the funny thing is the movie is "****oris", which we all no what it is. Do u think this is a good sign or am I in the friend zone?
 
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Avn_0903 said:
Hey I also want to ask this, she ask me to go to a movie with her, the funny thing is the movie is "****oris", which we all no what it is. Do u think this is a good sign or am I in the friend zone?
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do you really think you can tell what a girl is thinking by overanalyzing the name of a movie?
 
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i've had a few girls ask to see my phone.
any ideas on why this is?
 
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