“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl dumps bf to be with me, they are neighbors

mrsoy

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this is a strange situation..

girl finds me wildly attractive and dumps her current bf to be with me. her and her ex live next door to eachother, neither of them have jobs and still live at home with their parents. i live 40 minutes away during the semester, i go to university. she wants to still be friends with him and that group of people who are local around here cause he was her in on that group of friends. shes pretty convincing when she says she wants to be with me and not him. he still wants to be with her.. how bad is this situation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrsoy

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heres the thing,

that group of friends happens to be my group of friends. or at least they overlap quite a bit. i havent seen my friends in like a week because ive been spending it with her. its like i have to segragate my friends from my girl because my friends are used to seeing her with her ex which happens to be a mutual friend of ours. in fact, me and the ex know eachother and stuff but i dont consider myself good friends with him. ive talked to him briefly about the whole thing. again, i think its the fact that all our mutual friends are all the same AND she wants to remain friends with them that is really giving us a lot of friction. throw on top of that i havent been in a relationship, let alone a healthy one, in the last 3-4 years. im 21. and yes we both do want a relationship.
 

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shes probably using you to get back at him, and start some drama between the social circle, shiit dude i would just hook up with her and then game some chicks at the university. Why put yourself through unesscary drama. Is this one chick really worth it.
 
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