"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girl dumping my friend to have me??

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im in some trouble. this girl who i've known for ten years seems to be interested in me. the problem is not just that shes been in the friend mode from the beginning and that im not really going crazy over her and this is just-plain-weird, her current bf is my friend. not a close friend, but still a friend. it's obvious she likes me a lot with the flirting online tonight. calling me buff, hun, implying that she aint exactly crazy over her man, etc, wtf...she asked me out, christ...i can't remember when that last happened.
is something changing about me? its funny because it seems like im always the loner- and all of a sudden, i've got an old friend totally changing her attitude towards me plus another girl i havent mentioned who is actually being sort of needy towards me, trying to get closer to me and saying lame things and stuff...lol, girls tend to run away from me, guess thats changing.
Any suggestions on any of this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tell your friend, seriously, I had a girl like two weeks ago who was going out with one of my buddies...

I said, "are you serious with her?"

he goes, "nah, you want a go?"

"She wants a go at me"

"go ahead"

So's I boinked her at a party, and when we were done I called my friend into the room while she was laying there with nothing on. "your turn" I said, then she rolled over and punched me softly with this evil "come here" look on her face.

No problems, no worries...

As long as you tell your friend, and ask him, there are no problems...

Just keep trying with him, use different wiles, and throw innuendo at him like there was no life for you if you don't screw her brains out.

I might live in a different sexually cultured place than you though... just make sure your friend knows if he says no, that his girl is putting the moves on you.
 
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Your becoming respected, and the girls want to take advantage.

Above two guys said it, bros before hoes.

I'm just thinkin, it's highschool, your 'friend' probably wants to date ther girls, and is probably sick of this one, but hasn't found an excuse yet.

Just tell him what she is doing. bros before hoes.

Who are you going to protect?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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