"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl Dreamt about me

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davester88

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So this girl who is in one of my classes, Nicole, who is an absolute fox, came up to me the other day and told me she had a dream about me.....I wanted to know what I was doing in this dream, so I asked her a couple of times and she seemed content not to tell me so I was teasing her etc. Turns out she dreamt that we were making out at school in a storage room! I have pretty good rapport with this girl, and I do think it is possible for her and I to hook up. Any advice/past experience with situations like this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, If you dont think its possible for you and her to hook up, why waste time even thinking about it? Or is it that you're interested but you're scared it wont work?

Either way bro, you gotta make up your mind. This girl seems to have interest in you, figure out if you have interest in her, otherwise, forget her.
 
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Yeah man thats the thing. I'm gonna make a move and probably hang out with her friday night or something but it might be a bit weird cause we've been friends for just over a year and it seems funny that shes just getting these thoughts about me now...or maybe I'm just picking up my game :D What would you do if you were in my shoes?
 
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She may be telling the truth or being playful. Either way, it's a good sign. I, personally, would take advantage of the situation.

-Sachiel, DJ in Training
 
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haha if i were u i'd like purposely catch her in the halls by a storage room and be like "eh... eh..?" and start grinnin and winkin and **** lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shes obviously into you, dreams just aren't made up out of thin air :p
dreams are based off the human mind, which means shes been thinking about you :) i would also take advantage of the situation
 
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cheesewacked said:
shes obviously into you, dreams just aren't made up out of thin air :p
dreams are based off the human mind, which means shes been thinking about you :) i would also take advantage of the situation
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Exactly :up: Basic psychology...
 
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It's all there and ripe for the taking mate. Take her out somewhere, throw in a little game, and make a move. Just don't let yourself go home with regret.
 
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