"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So this girl who is in one of my classes, Nicole, who is an absolute fox, came up to me the other day and told me she had a dream about me.....I wanted to know what I was doing in this dream, so I asked her a couple of times and she seemed content not to tell me so I was teasing her etc. Turns out she dreamt that we were making out at school in a storage room! I have pretty good rapport with this girl, and I do think it is possible for her and I to hook up. Any advice/past experience with situations like this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah, If you dont think its possible for you and her to hook up, why waste time even thinking about it? Or is it that you're interested but you're scared it wont work?

Either way bro, you gotta make up your mind. This girl seems to have interest in you, figure out if you have interest in her, otherwise, forget her.
 
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Yeah man thats the thing. I'm gonna make a move and probably hang out with her friday night or something but it might be a bit weird cause we've been friends for just over a year and it seems funny that shes just getting these thoughts about me now...or maybe I'm just picking up my game :D What would you do if you were in my shoes?
 
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She may be telling the truth or being playful. Either way, it's a good sign. I, personally, would take advantage of the situation.

-Sachiel, DJ in Training
 
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haha if i were u i'd like purposely catch her in the halls by a storage room and be like "eh... eh..?" and start grinnin and winkin and **** lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shes obviously into you, dreams just aren't made up out of thin air :p
dreams are based off the human mind, which means shes been thinking about you :) i would also take advantage of the situation
 
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cheesewacked said:
shes obviously into you, dreams just aren't made up out of thin air :p
dreams are based off the human mind, which means shes been thinking about you :) i would also take advantage of the situation
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Exactly :up: Basic psychology...
 
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It's all there and ripe for the taking mate. Take her out somewhere, throw in a little game, and make a move. Just don't let yourself go home with regret.
 
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