Girl doesnt want me to stay the night..

[gimmeyofonenumba]

we've been dating for close to 2 months now. She's stayed at my place a few of times after having sex. We we're gonna get together for dinner on sat nite, and since she lives kinda far i was gonna keep a change of clothes in my car. I've stayed at her place once. When we start discussing it, she starts hinting to me like, oh i gotta be up early, you probably wont get much sleep,etc. then i tell her again i'd really like to stay, and she comes up with another reason why i shouldnt. I dunno why, but im feeling pretty damn hurt. I know im usually the tough guy and all, but i really feel sad that she's not excited and open to me staying the night. The sex is good, but I was lookin forward to stayin the nite too.

Honestly, I dont even feel like seeing her anymore if this is gonna be the case, what do you guys think?

 

[DonGorgon]

She has another man commin through... or she want sprivacy.. you need to talk to her about it and find out what the problem is..

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

alright man hang around cause i think you'll have some solid advice. heres more info: I told her like 2 weeks into us dating, that i wasnt lookin for anything exclusive at all. I think she didnt take it all to great. That was like 4-5 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago she told me about a guy she started dating and I said I was okay with it, i just didnt wanna know bout their business. Last weekend however, I thought we were really warming up to each other more than ever, and i was really starting to take a liking to her. But now this happens, Im pretty damn upset.

 

[LeComteDeMonteCristo]

I told her like 2 weeks into us dating, that i wasnt lookin for anything exclusive at all.

Well then it is your own fault. If you like the girl enough to get upset over her, why are you telling her crap like this?

 

[DonGorgon]

alright man hang around cause i think you'll have some solid advice. heres more info: I told her like 2 weeks into us dating, that i wasnt lookin for anything exclusive at all. I think she didnt take it all to great. That was like 4-5 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago she told me about a guy she started dating and I said I was okay with it, i just didnt wanna know bout their business. Last weekend however, I thought we were really warming up to each other more than ever, and i was really starting to take a liking to her. But now this happens, Im pretty damn upset.

Well she would have dated him anyway .... notice how this all looks like your fault.. women are masters at that..

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I told her that cause thats how i felt at the time, I was actually gonna tell her we shouldnt hang out at all anymore. Now its been a month and i've started warming up to her. Yes i understand it is my fault, you guys think thats what she;s trying to do?

 

[DonGorgon]

I told her that cause thats how i felt at the time, I was actually gonna tell her we shouldnt hang out at all anymore. Now its been a month and i've started warming up to her. Yes i understand it is my fault, you guys think thats what she;s trying to do?

She out gamed you... you can only win now by finding another woman..

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

you're right, alright don should i just spill everything out, or just tell her i think we'd be best moving on?

 

[DonGorgon]

you're right, alright don should i just spill everything out, or just tell her i think we'd be best moving on?

Seems to me she has moved on already... so dont say anything just start doing your own thing with other girls... and when she crawls back to you use her for F'ing only...

 

[ZenGodMod]

My god! This is so simple!

She turns into a were wolf during a fullmoon which was that night.

Look, she doesn't want to tell you truth at the moment. Her reasons why doesn't matter.

Its how you handle it.

Which should be having a good night sleep. Then the next day you can ask her whats her deal. If the truth doesn't come out , drop her.

Also bet when you started warming up to her you never mentioned it to her, so she is still assuming she just a sport-fuc and not returning the warmth.

 

[ProDJ26]

(yawns)

MOVE ON!!!!!

 

[DonGorgon]

My god! This is so simple!

She turns into a were wolf during a fullmoon which was that night.

More like a Hoor-wolf...LOL