"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl doesnt want me to stay the night..

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we've been dating for close to 2 months now. She's stayed at my place a few of times after having sex. We we're gonna get together for dinner on sat nite, and since she lives kinda far i was gonna keep a change of clothes in my car. I've stayed at her place once. When we start discussing it, she starts hinting to me like, oh i gotta be up early, you probably wont get much sleep,etc. then i tell her again i'd really like to stay, and she comes up with another reason why i shouldnt. I dunno why, but im feeling pretty damn hurt. I know im usually the tough guy and all, but i really feel sad that she's not excited and open to me staying the night. The sex is good, but I was lookin forward to stayin the nite too.

Honestly, I dont even feel like seeing her anymore if this is gonna be the case, what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alright man hang around cause i think you'll have some solid advice. heres more info: I told her like 2 weeks into us dating, that i wasnt lookin for anything exclusive at all. I think she didnt take it all to great. That was like 4-5 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago she told me about a guy she started dating and I said I was okay with it, i just didnt wanna know bout their business. Last weekend however, I thought we were really warming up to each other more than ever, and i was really starting to take a liking to her. But now this happens, Im pretty damn upset.
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
I told her like 2 weeks into us dating, that i wasnt lookin for anything exclusive at all.
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Well then it is your own fault. If you like the girl enough to get upset over her, why are you telling her crap like this?
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
alright man hang around cause i think you'll have some solid advice. heres more info: I told her like 2 weeks into us dating, that i wasnt lookin for anything exclusive at all. I think she didnt take it all to great. That was like 4-5 weeks ago. 2 weeks ago she told me about a guy she started dating and I said I was okay with it, i just didnt wanna know bout their business. Last weekend however, I thought we were really warming up to each other more than ever, and i was really starting to take a liking to her. But now this happens, Im pretty damn upset.
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Well she would have dated him anyway .... notice how this all looks like your fault.. women are masters at that..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I told her that cause thats how i felt at the time, I was actually gonna tell her we shouldnt hang out at all anymore. Now its been a month and i've started warming up to her. Yes i understand it is my fault, you guys think thats what she;s trying to do?
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
I told her that cause thats how i felt at the time, I was actually gonna tell her we shouldnt hang out at all anymore. Now its been a month and i've started warming up to her. Yes i understand it is my fault, you guys think thats what she;s trying to do?
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She out gamed you... you can only win now by finding another woman..
 
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you're right, alright don should i just spill everything out, or just tell her i think we'd be best moving on?
 
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you're right, alright don should i just spill everything out, or just tell her i think we'd be best moving on?
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Seems to me she has moved on already... so dont say anything just start doing your own thing with other girls... and when she crawls back to you use her for F'ing only...
 
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My god! This is so simple!

She turns into a were wolf during a fullmoon which was that night.

Look, she doesn't want to tell you truth at the moment. Her reasons why doesn't matter.

Its how you handle it.

Which should be having a good night sleep. Then the next day you can ask her whats her deal. If the truth doesn't come out , drop her.

Also bet when you started warming up to her you never mentioned it to her, so she is still assuming she just a sport-fuc and not returning the warmth.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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